Zweig noted: "It is a natural privilege for women to reject heterosexual pursuits, and even if they reject passionate love, it will not be considered cruel." ”
In relationships, most women are very cautious, and when faced with a man's pursuit, they will not accept it easily, and as long as there is the slightest doubt, they will refuse.
The psychological manifestation of women is that they would rather miss a fate than blindly associate so as not to be hurt.
Therefore, they are not sure about the men they don't like, or the men they are dating, and they will not hesitate to leave and never give the other party a chance.
Such a woman appears to be very cold and unapproachable, and even if the other party really likes her, if she has concerns or does not look down on the other person at all, she will refuse to pursue it.
Moreover, they usually do not express their rejection directly, but through messages to suggest that the other person is leaving and not to be entangled.
This requires the man to understand the woman's cues and let go once he senses that she doesn't want to be in a relationship.
In general, when a woman refuses to develop a relationship, she uses "message" to imply:
1. Replying to a message with no more than three words is perfunctory to the other party If a woman does not want to date, she usually does not have enthusiasm after receiving the other party's message, but will feel bored.
At this time, she will appear indifferent when replying to messages, usually no more than three words, which is perfunctory and expresses that she does not want to be disturbed.
For example, she often replies with: "Well, yes", "Oh, okay", "sick", "Don't bother me", "Get away", etc.
These words all have a connotation of indifference, which is both perfunctory to the other party and an expression of rejection.
No matter what message the other party sends, she doesn't think it matters, and she hardly responds seriously.
Therefore, she always uses these indifferent words, the purpose of which is to make the other party retreat from the difficulty and not entangle.
When a man is dealing with a woman, he must carefully observe her words, and if he finds that she is not interested in himself and does not want to communicate with himself, he should stay away.
Because people who women don't like have long denied it in their hearts, whether the man is sincere or not, she doesn't want to develop a relationship.
Women who really like men will reply to messages especially seriously and express deep emotions, and only such women will give each other the opportunity to enjoy the beauty of love together.
On the contrary, a woman who has no interest in the conversation, behaves in a particularly perfunctory manner, and has a very cold attitude is a sign of refusal to socialize.
When a man meets such a woman, he should not blindly give, let alone entangle, otherwise it will only make the other party more annoying.
Second, sending a message saying that she doesn't want to talk to the other party anymore, indicating that she has lost interest in the other party When she is with the female **, if she suddenly sends a message saying that she doesn't want to talk to the other party anymore, and does not explain the reason, it is actually implying that she has lost interest in the other party.
Such women are often reluctant to engage further and may only regard the other person as a friend and will not accept the other person's pursuits.
Therefore, she will take into account the other party's face and try to use euphemistic words to remind the other party not to think about it, otherwise she will delete the other party.
When a man meets such a woman, don't ask the reason, so as not to cause disgust to the other party, she has lost interest in the other party, and the other party does not have to pester.
At this time, it is better to accept it silently, not to disturb the other party, and maybe to maintain a friend relationship, which may end better.
In real life, some men don't understand women's minds, and when they see women saying they don't want to talk anymore, they still blindly ask why, which is unnecessary.
Because once the other party is asked like this, they will feel pressure, and when the other party hates the other party, they will definitely cut off contact.
Women's feelings are very sensitive, and if a man touches the bottom line, she will immediately become disgusted with the other person and do not want to see the other person again.
Therefore, in the face of women who don't like them, it is better for men to let go, not to stalk, and it is wise to let go as soon as possible for love that does not see hope.
A woman's reluctance to have a relationship with a man shows that she really doesn't want to develop a relationship, and letting go is a rational choice.
3. Sending a message saying that you already have a favorite object is rejecting the other party's expression that women don't want to develop a relationship with each other, and the most direct manifestation is that you send a message saying that you already have a favorite object, which is a clear indication of rejecting the other party.
She deliberately conveyed such a message to the other party in order to remind the other party that she already had a man she liked, and that she was more suitable than the other party and would not accept the other party's pursuit.
She hopes that the other party can die and stop pestering her, no matter what the other party does, she will not be moved.
In fact, it is already very obvious that a woman says such a thing, she has no expectations of the other person and will not give it a chance.
Moreover, she will refuse the other party's overtures, always keep her distance, and will not let the other party have a chance to get close.
As long as she sees the other party coming over, she will be alert and reject the other party as soon as possible, so that the other party will retreat.
In the middle of the two, once a man hears a woman say that she already has a partner, he should understand that she is refusing, and he must not pursue blindly.
In general, when a woman refuses to develop a relationship with the other person, she will pass on the cues through "messages":
Replying to a message with no more than three words is perfunctory;Sending a message saying that you don't want to talk to the other party anymore means that the other party has lost interest;Sending a message saying that you already have a favorite object is rejecting the other party's explicit expression.
When men pursue women, they must understand more about women's minds and carefully understand their words, so as not to waste themselves in vain.
When it is found that women do not want to continue their relationship, they should learn to let go and leave gracefully to avoid embarrassment.
Otherwise, blindly pestering each other and stalking each other will only make the other party more annoying.
No matter what kind of women they are, they will be cautious when it comes to their feelings, and those who don't like them will not give them a chance.
Because in women's hearts, there is no reason to dislike someone, it is their instinct.
Understand this, you should not blindly pursue it, learn to let go, this is the manifestation of maturity.