In Chinese social culture, etiquette and rules at the wine table are essential.
However, some people show some unpleasant Xi habits at the wine table, which is difficult to accept.
Let's take a look at what people are not suitable for deep friendship at the wine table.
1. Forcibly persuade people to drink.
At the Chinese wine table, some people will constantly persuade others to drink, and even use some coercive means to make the other party have to drink.
This kind of behavior not only disrespects the wishes of others, but also makes them feel uncomfortable and stressed.
They don't care about the feelings and needs of others, they only care about their own happiness and enjoyment.
Such people often lack love and understanding for others, and are not suitable for deep friendship.
2. Getting drunk and out of control.
Some people get drunk or slightly drunk and get out of control, such as getting emotional, making loud noises, swearing, or even hitting people.
This behavior will not only affect the atmosphere at the wine table, but also bring danger to those around you.
Such people often lack self-discipline and self-control, and are not suitable for deep friendship.
3. Neglecting others.
At the wine table, some people only care about drinking, chatting, and enjoying the food themselves, without considering the feelings and needs of others.
They don't know how to treat others with respect, how to maintain good social etiquette and cultural literacy.
This kind of behavior is not only impolite, but it can also make the people around you feel left out and ignored, and such people are not suitable for deep friendship.
Fourth, rude and rude.
At the wine table, some people will shout loudly, speak violently, interrupt others at will, comment on others' words and deeds at will, etc.
This behavior will not only affect the atmosphere at the table, but also make the people around you feel uncomfortable and disgusted.
They may lack important qualities such as respect, self-control, and etiquette. Therefore, it is advisable not to have a deep relationship with them.