The middle school student was suspected of being beaten into a coma by his classmates, and the school could not escape responsibility
The student's impulsive and irritable behavior is out of control.
Students in secondary school are prone to impulsivity, irritability, and often uncontrolled behavior, which is a reflection of the situation that students are in"Adolescence"The body is in the process of rapid growth, and the brain is also in a critical period of development, and emotions and impulsive behaviors will naturally be more intense. Adolescent students tend to have mood ups and downs, showing great interest and curiosity about the things around them. This is due to the fact that during adolescence, students' physical and mental development is in a stage of rapid growth, and they are more sensitive to external stimuli and more receptive. However, this state of emotional excitement can also easily lead students to be impulsive and irritable, and even show uncontrollable behavior. Students' behavioral Xi are the result of the combined influence of family education and school education. Today, with the continuous development of quality education, there are still some parents who spoil their children too much, making their children become selfish, willful, and even so-called"Bear child"。At the same time, the management of some schools is not strict enough, and teachers do not have effective discipline requirements for students, which aggravates the occurrence of conflicts among students. Therefore, families and schools should pay attention to the growth and success of students, and jointly provide a good environment for students to grow.
Background of the case. A student at Bajia Middle School in Yangchun City, Guangdong Province, was injured by a classmate. According to reports, Xiao Jiang, a second-grade boy, had an argument with his classmate Xiao Liao. Xiao Jiang took the opportunity of the recess to push Xiao Liao to the teacher's podium, and with the help of his classmate Xiao Huang, hit Xiao Liao on the back of the head with a broom and punched him several times. The other students in the class discovered the situation and reported it to the teacher, who took Xiao Liao to the hospital. However, this incident brought a shocking news: Xiao Liao entered the so-called"Vegetative people"state, still not awakened. It seems to be just a small dispute, but it puts a middle school student in such a terrible situation. Faced with this situation, people are full of questions and worries: what is the reason for the development of conflicts between middle school students to such a serious level?More importantly, did the school and parents take the necessary steps to avoid such a tragedy?
The importance of homeschooling.
The problem of school bullying is not uncommon in modern society, and it not only affects the morale of the school, but also has an impact on the morals of other students. If the school does not punish bullying severely, even if other students are not the perpetrators, they will learn the wrong information from the bullying and imitate it. Therefore, schools have an important responsibility to prevent bullying. However, the role of family education cannot be overlooked. Parents play an important role in shaping their children's perceptions and behaviors. They have the responsibility to guide their children in a timely manner, pass on correct ideas and concepts, and avoid the consequences of their parents' bad behavior. If parents are selfish and put themselves above others, then children will develop similar behavioral Xi, which is very wrong. Therefore, family education should not be delayed, and parents should correctly guide their children and establish a correct outlook on life for them.
Homeschooling methods.
Parents should adopt a method that is appropriate to the characteristics of the student to educate the student. First of all, parents can understand their child's inner world by communicating with them. In this process, parents should play the role of a good listener and listen to their children's voices to better understand their children's inner thoughts and feelings. If the child's ideas are more extreme, parents can subtly guide them and encourage the child to agree with his ideas to a certain extent. Secondly, parents should avoid excessive comparisons and do not compare other children with their own children. Excessive comparison can easily lead to children's rebellious psychology, and will also widen the distance between them and their children. In middle school, children's thoughts are richer and their mood swings are more intense, and it is very important for family education to maintain a stable mood. Parents should influence their children with an optimistic attitude, guide them subtly, and let them learn to deal with difficulties and setbacks. At the same time, parents' emotions will also have an impact on their children in all aspects, so maintaining a normal mindset is very beneficial to children's development.
Conclusion. The existence of bullying in schools reflects a series of serious problems that not only affect school ethos, but also have a negative impact on the morals of other students. If schools and parents do not do their part, it will be impossible to avoid a recurrence of similar tragedies. Therefore, to ensure the healthy growth of students, it is necessary for schools, parents and society to work together. Schools should strengthen moral education and create a good campus environmentParents should pay attention to their children's growth, treat their children's behaviors correctly, and guide them in a timely mannerSociety should pay attention to the growth of students, and strengthen supervision and punishment of bullying on campus. In terms of family education, parents can adopt methods such as more communication with their children and skillful guidance to guide their children's ideological concepts and behavioral Xi.