The school could not escape responsibility, and middle school students were branded as "mentally retarded".
Students are impulsive and irritable, reflecting the characteristics of teenagers.
Middle school students tend to be prone to mood swings and impulsiveness, a phenomenon that is often blamed on their adolescence. Adolescence is a critical period of a person's growth and psychological development, in which the body undergoes drastic changes and the brain matures rapidly. During this period, natural emotions and impulsive behaviors become more intense. The growth process of students is inseparable from the dual influence of family education and school education, both of which play an indispensable and important role. However, in the context of the continuous development of quality education, some parents spoil their children too much and train their children to be so-called"Bear child"Coupled with the lax management of schools and teachers, many parents feel helpless. As the saying goes:"Behind the bear children, there must be bear parents"。Some parents can guide their children in a timely manner, while others cannot. Students who make serious mistakes but do not repent can only be punished by the law. The incident at a middle school in Yangchun City, Guangdong Province, sparked a lot of controversy. A second-year junior high school student was suspected of being injured by a classmate and was even posted"Vegetative people"tags.
Deficiencies in home education and school management.
In middle school, it is common for classmates to be naughty with each other, and chasing each other is also a part of the school"Youth"Scenery. However, all deeds must be done in moderation and moderation. Unilateral acts of bullying and intimidation are not allowed. However, in Yangchun No. 8 Middle School in Guangdong Province, there was an incident in which a student was injured by a classmate. Xiao Jiang took advantage of the recess to push Xiao Liao near the teacher's podium, and with the help of his classmate Xiao Huang, hit Xiao Liao on the back of the head with a broom, punched and kicked, and hit Xiao Liao on the head several times. After the incident, the whole class realized that something was wrong and immediately reported it to the teacher. After the teacher arrived at the scene, he immediately dialed 120 Ambulance** and sent Xiao Liao to the hospital. However, according to Xiao Liao's parents, Xiao Liao is still in the current situation"Deep coma"state, that is, the so-called"Vegetative people"I don't know when I'll wake up. Just because of a slight quarrel, middle school students were violently treated by their classmates and even beaten up"Vegetative people"。What kind of hatred led to such a result?What's more, the participants in these violent acts are only primary school students, and they already know how to organize gangs to intimidate others and beat their victims, which shows that there are serious problems in family education, and it is even more difficult for schools to shirk their responsibilities.
Incidents of bullying in schools are constantly emerging, reflecting serious problems in school education. School bullying not only affects school ethos, but also the moral values of other students. If schools don't punish such behaviour severely, other students are likely to follow suit. Family education is particularly important: parents must guide their children early and pass on the right values, rather than letting them develop the Xi of selfishness and bullying others. Parental behavior is also crucial. If parents themselves behave incorrectly and allow their children to develop the Xi of selfishness and bullying, it is a big mistake. Although the authorities have set up an investigation team to investigate the case and the victim's family has been reassured, many people do not have much hope for the outcome of the case. It could be a criticism of education, or simply a reparation, and then it would be as if nothing had happened. Netizens said that it is very likely that the matter will not be resolved, and the person concerned will continue to bully and hurt other students and become the school"Bully"。When I think back to my middle school days, there were always one or two in each class"Difficult"of the characters, they are almost in the class"Overlord"Their words were not taken to heart by the teacher, and other students avoided them. This also reflects the lack of family education, parents can not ignore it, to take the child's growth seriously, the correct view of the child's behavior, the mistake can be corrected is very important.
How parents can properly shape students' perceptions and behaviors.
Family education is imminent, and parents play an important role in shaping students' perceptions and behaviors. Here are some suggestions:
1.Communicate more with students: Parents can communicate more with their children for a deeper level"Heart to heart"of conversations. Parents can listen to their children's speeches and understand their children's thoughts and inner world. If the child's ideas are too extreme, parents can guide them skillfully and affirm and encourage the child's ideas to a certain extent.
2) Reduce comparative: Parents should not constantly compare children from other families with their own children. Excessive comparisons can aggravate a child's rebellious behavior and alienate them from each other.
3) Maintain a stable mindset: Parents should maintain a stable mindset and strive to let their children see their positive and optimistic side. When encountering difficulties, don't be too anxious and panic, let your child see the good side of yourself.
Schools must strengthen the management of moral education.
Schools also have an important responsibility to strengthen education and moral management. Schools should create a good campus environment and atmosphere, establish an effective management system, and ensure the safe and healthy growth of students. For problems such as school bullying, schools should take severe punishment measures to ensure harmony and safety on campus.
In conclusion, middle school students are prone to impulsiveness and irritability, and their behavior is often out of their control, which reflects that they are in their teenage years. Both home education and school education play an important role in the growth of students, and both parents and schools must recognize and assume their responsibilities. Parents should set an example by guiding their children to establish correct behavioral concepts and communicate effectively with their children. Schools should strengthen the management of moral education and create a good campus environment. Through the joint efforts of family education and school education, we can help students develop correct behavior Xi and grow up healthily.