When courting women, many men may fall into a "dog-licking" mentality, that is, over-pleasing the other person in order to gain the other's favor. However, this practice often not only does not achieve the desired effect, but will make the female ** disgusted and uncomfortable.
First, pleasing the other person excessively can make men appear less confident and independent. A confident, independent man is usually more attractive because they are able to showcase their personality and values. And pleasing the other person excessively often makes people feel that men lack self-confidence and do not have their own positions and ideas.
Secondly, pleasing each other excessively may also put pressure and burden on women. If a man always meets all the needs of a woman, then the woman may feel constrained and unable to be independent. This feeling of unfreedom can make women turn aversion to men.
In addition, over-pleasing each other can also upset the balance between men and women. In the process of pursuit, men and women should maintain equal status, mutual respect and understanding. If men are obsessed with pleasing women, then this balance is upset, causing the relationship between men and women to become unhealthy.
Therefore, men should avoid being "licking dogs" when courting women. They should remain confident and independent, showcasing their personality and values. At the same time, they should also respect the wishes and needs of women and not overplease each other. A healthy, long-lasting relationship can only be established if a balanced relationship is maintained between men and women.
In short, don't be a "licking dog" when pursuing women, be confident and independent, and respect women's wishes and needs. Only in this way can a healthy, long-lasting relationship be established.