My cousin helped someone else raise a child, and then, he was ruthlessly kicked out of the house by others!I'm very depressed!
A distant cousin of mine couldn't marry a daughter-in-law when he was young because his parents died early and his family was poor. It wasn't until he was in his 30s that he was united with a young widow from a neighboring village.
The widow had an eight-year-old son, and she had a hard time with her before she married my cousin. As her son grew up and prices continued to rise, so did the cost and the widow felt a little overwhelmed.
Someone happened to match my cousin and her, and as soon as she saw my cousin, she fell in love with my cousin's brute strength, and there should be no problem with this body and strength to support the family.
My cousin also fell in love with her at a glance, on the one hand, she is 30 years old and has not yet started a family, so she is anxious not to say, but more importantly, she still has a little posture, and her mature body is as attractive as a peach.
The widow soon became my cousin, and I felt like they were taking what they wanted. My cousin found someone to help raise my son, and my cousin finally had a home.
After starting a family, my cousin was finally able to eat hot meals, and he was full of excitement and enthusiasm for his work. Because his house was dilapidated, his family was surrounded by walls, and he was alone, so his cousin asked his cousin to move his family over and live in their house.
My cousin knows how to carpenter, and he used to travel to the countryside and villages during his leisure time, making some simple furniture and wood for others. Although he doesn't earn much, he still lives much better than ordinary people.
But the good times didn't last long, and slowly there were not many people in the countryside who made their own furniture, and my cousin's business was getting worse and worse. The furniture industry has slowly faded out of people's sight. My cousin stayed at home all day, tinkering with their few acres of land.
People in rural areas know that they don't even think about relying on the income of a few acres of land to support their families. My cousin saw that my cousin couldn't make any money, and slowly became unsatisfactory, so she began to lose her face and began to complain and scold, which was once every three or five days, and then developed to be noisy almost every day.
My cousin was very anxious when he couldn't make money, although he was reluctant to leave home and leave his cousin to go out to work, but it was not a way for the family to jump every day, so he gritted his teeth and went out to work.
I went to the construction site to move bricks, fortunately, my cousin knows carpentry, has skills, and when I arrived at the construction site, I am still engaged in the technical work of brackets and shells, although I am very tired, but the income of two or three hundred yuan a day is indeed very good.
In this way, the red tickets continued to fly into my cousin's pocket, and my cousin's face was filled with a sweet smile, and every time my cousin came back on holidays, he was very kind to him.
After several years in this way, it was the Spring Festival of 2019, the masks came, people couldn't go out, and the construction site couldn't start. My cousin's income has dropped greatly, and he can't send money to the family on time.
My cousin could understand at first, and she didn't complain about anything, but she couldn't understand when she understood. Whoever earns money can get as much as he takes from home last year and as much as he takes from home this year.
The implication is that there are epidemics, real estate is in a recession, and everyone can make money, so why can't you?
Uncle Cousin explained a few words at first, but later, he didn't even bother to explain!As soon as it is explained, it is argued, and when it is argued, it is quarreled. Don't argue about big quarrels, but argue about small quarrels every day.
At this time, their son was about to graduate from college, and since his cousin came to their house, this child had never treated his cousin well, he was always full of hostility, and his cousin couldn't treat him well. It's okay to be ignorant when I was a child, but now I've been in college for a few years, and I still ignore my cousin, and I treat my cousin as if it were air.
Seeing that he and his mother quarreled every day, of course the child saw it. At first, I could still think of my stepfather's goodness, it was my stepfather who supported the family, and without my stepfather, he might have gone out to work and go to college a long time ago, so he didn't even think about it. So it has been hidden and not seizures.
But my cousin quarrels every day, and although my cousin has been hiding it, sometimes I really have nothing to do, and I will argue a few words, and such days are really annoying. After a long time, as soon as the two of them discussed it, they said to their cousin: It's not a way to make noise every day, you should move back to your house, and you won't be out of sight and out of mind.
When my cousin heard this, he was blindsided, and looked at them in disbelief: This is clearly unloading the mill and killing the donkey to drive me away!I helped you raise your children, and helped you renovate your house, and I went out to work over the years, and my family has three or two hundred thousand, right?You don't need me anymore, you want to get rid of me?
Uncle Cousin was so angry that he blurted out without thinking: "I can go, but I have to take all the family savings with me, it's all my blood and sweat!."I won't leave you behind!”
Deposit?What to deposit?It doesn't cost money to farm?Don't spend money on food and clothing?It doesn't cost money for children to go to school?Don't spend money on the usual courtesy?Everything is expensive, just the little bit you earn, it's not that I'm frugal, I usually don't spend enough, what savings do you have?It's ridiculous!”
The cousin finally tore her face and shouted hysterically.
When my cousin heard her say this, he was so angry that he trembled, and he couldn't say a word when he pointed at her for a long time. They didn't get a marriage certificate, and they didn't have a son and a half daughter to connect with each other. In this way, my cousin has lived with her for almost 20 years, helped her build a new house, raised her son, saved a ticket, and as a result, she was cleaned out of the house.
Later, I don't know whether it was my conscience, whether it was someone who had been told or for some other purpose, she went to my cousin's dilapidated house again and begged my cousin to go back.
But my cousin, he didn't dare to kill him, and he didn't want to go back, he also wanted to take advantage of the fact that he was only in his 50s, and the epidemic was released, so he quickly went out to earn some money and save it to prevent old age.
The reason why my cousin got to this point, I helped him analyze the reason: first, he did not get a marriage certificate, and his rights and interests were not protected. Second, he doesn't have his own children, and the children are the link between the two, and many people are watching the children barely make do, but he doesn't have this bond. Third, I don't know how to prevent it, when I can make money, how much I earn and send it to my family, and I don't know how to leave a little to prevent accidents. Fourth, it is not strong or domineering, and it is too weak and can be bullied, which can be ignored.
Therefore, don't be a stepfather or stepfather to someone else's child, I'd rather be single!Don't let your own children go and raise other people's children!A lot of the time, all she needs is for you to earn money to support her family and help her raise her children!This is true in the countryside, and the city is more utilitarian.
Or, although the two of them loved each other very much at the time, the kind of love that died and came alive, you also have to keep an eye on it, if you live without a heart and lungs, there will definitely be a day when you will be in pain to tears. Don't overestimate the relationship of second marriage, in front of firewood, rice, oil and salt, in front of personal interests, it is nothing. Human nature is unpredictable, try the end of the whole play!
Of course, there is nothing wrong with everything, and there are better ones, who are happy and harmonious after their second marriage, who can regard their children as their own and manage their marriage wholeheartedly. Although there are these immortal-like existences, there are too few of them after all, and they are too rare!