With the gradual emergence of the post-90s generation and the influx into all walks of life to become today's "backbone", the post-00s are also showing their unique brilliance, no longer the so-called "immature children" in the past, and even many children of the post-90s have entered junior high school.
As the saying goes, "the back waves of the river push the front waves, and the front waves will pat the back waves ashore", compared with their predecessors, today's young parents are more individual and innovative, which is especially significant in family education.
Traditional parents have a solemn attitude when they participate in the parent-teacher conference, and seriously discuss the student's academic performance and status with the teacher, while modern young parents turn the parent-teacher meeting into a "comparison" event, and some even think that the teacher is "making a fuss out of nothing", which makes people feel quite helpless.
A post-00s mother attended the parent-teacher conference, but caused controversy because she wore a "tongue stud" and stuck out her tongue**, which caused heated discussions among netizens: This is too much!
With the rapid development of the times, the parent group plays a vital role as an important platform for communicating parents and teachers. However, as an indispensable activity, parent-teacher conferences not only help teachers to have a more comprehensive understanding of students' family conditions, but also gain insight into parents' views on students' education.
From kindergarten onwards, students will go through several parent-teacher conferences, such as elementary school and junior high school, and parents' attitude towards parent-teacher conferences is crucial. If the attitude is perfunctory and sloppy, it will inevitably arouse the disgust of the teacher. However, the experience of a post-00s mother attending the parent-teacher conference has caused widespread controversy, she shared her experience on the Internet, and bored to post ** photos, but wearing "tongue nails" and sticking out her tongue ** has caused a lot of controversy, some netizens clearly said: This is not appropriate!
In fact, the audience for this ornament is relatively narrow and cannot be accepted by everyone. While ear piercing is a relatively common phenomenon, it takes considerable courage to pierce other parts of the body. This post-00s mother not only has tongue studs, but also has two lip studs under her lips, which is really unique.
Netizens also bluntly said that although other parents may not say it on the surface, they may let their children avoid socializing with this mother's children in private. Others pointed out that the tongue nail itself may be fine, but sticking out the tongue under the teacher during a meeting is really disrespectful. There are also people who make it clear that schools have their own disciplines, and it is better to abide by them.
In the face of doubts, the mother insisted: "Everyone should respect each other and should not change themselves because of other people's different eyes." In the author's opinion, parents only need to dress appropriately and modestly at the parent-teacher conference, and do not need to be too grand or casual. On such occasions, parents should maintain a serious attitude, after all, respect for teachers is the most basic principle.
Dressing up is personal freedom, but you also need to be mindful of the occasion. Young parents can be more personalized in terms of their outfit, but they should also consider the feelings of the students and think from the perspective of the students.
Parents need to communicate with teachers in a timely manner to understand the student's learning Xi and take targeted measures to address the problem. At the same time, parents should be role models for their students, not "negative examples".
The author believes that it is necessary to abandon too much interference in others, respect everyone's choices, do not pay too much attention to appearance or dress, and should not be too anxious about the eyes of others, but should guide students to form a correct way of thinking.
Parents are important participants in the growth of students, in addition to focusing on family education, how to guide students' growth more effectively?
This kind of thinking is seriously wrong and undesirable. If parents do not assume the responsibility and obligation to raise their students well, this is not only irresponsible for students, but also irresponsible for themselves. Therefore, parents should not pin all their hopes on their elders, otherwise it will have a negative impact on the growth of students.
Parents need to understand the true meaning of "teaching students according to their aptitude" and strive to practice "leading by example". For example, parents should not only play with their mobile phones or watch TV when students are learning Xi, so as not to affect the atmosphere of Xi school. At the same time, parents should also explore the talents and abilities of their students and better guide them.
It is the responsibility of parents to convey the correct aesthetics, values and outlook on life, so that students can "read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles", and learn to let go moderately, so that they can work hard to expand their life experience. Instead of spoiling, we should respect students' ideas and protect their self-esteem and face.
The authors mention that young parents have a more unique perspective on the education of their students. Although it is a personal preference for parents to dress differently, it should be dressed differently for different occasions, especially at parent-teacher conferences, and not as a "nice-to-have" activity.
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