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Everyone wants to succeed, but only a handful of people can succeed.
But there is a way:There must be a reason for failure, and there must be a way to succeed.
As the saying goes:There is a way in everything, and enlightenment will be enlightened.
Zhuangzi also said:The Taoist, the cause of all things, the one who loses the thing dies, the one who gains it lives, and the one who goes against it will fail, and the one who goes along with it will succeed.
You must know: "Tao" is the origin of all things, whether it is to be a person or to achieve things, only by following the laws of the Tao can we succeed, otherwise we will fail.
And since we live in today's society, we have to deal with people no matter what we do, and it can also be said that each of us has been dealing with people all our lives, which is also inevitable if we want to succeed.
Therefore, if we want to succeed, we must first study human beings, understand human nature, and be able to firmly grasp human nature, and human nature is humanity.
What is that person?
Man is actually an animal, but he is a high-level animal with thoughts and feelings.
As long as it is an animal, it cannot avoid being affected by its basic attributes, obeying the law of the jungle, and the law of the jungle is the most typical representative of the law of the jungle.
There is a way to be:Everything is changing, but humanity has not changed forever!
It's just that for a long time, after social progress, the baptism of civilization, and a long period of self-packaging, many people have forgotten the fact that they are animals.
But this also makes most humans a little more ashamed than animals, which also makes the difference between humans and animals.
But this is the result of domestication after all, and human nature such as selfishness, cruelty, greed, profit-seeking, vanity, lust, etc. are all engraved on human genes and blood, and it is impossible to completely **, this is human nature.
Therefore, in human society, we have been following the law of the jungle, weak is the original sin, and weak will be eaten by the strong, there is no reason, this is the law of nature, and it is also the way of heaven.
Like fairness and justice, moral concepts are just artificial appearances, and like many people, the root cause of pain, sadness, and sadness is that their hearts are too fragile and cannot accept that society follows the law of the jungle.
Therefore, if you want to raise your survival ceiling and change your destiny, you must first change your concepts and values to make yourself stronger and stronger.
And the best way to change your own concepts and values is to understand yourself first.
When you understand yourself, you will slowly understand human nature, understand human nature, understand others, understand others, understand others, understand the logic of human behavior, and understand the laws of social behavior.
From then on, you will also understand what the people around you do, and you will be able to understand their psychology and change your own destiny.
Maybe many people can't help but want to spray me when they see this, but what I want to say is that the reason why I tell you this is not to promote the ugliness of human nature.
Of course, there are still many good people who have been educated, just because I have seen the ugliness of many people's faces when I was young, and I want everyone to understand in advance, know how to defend, protect themselves and their families, and avoid being hurt by human nature.
After all, most people are profit-seeking, selfish, liking the new and hating the old, bullying the weak and fearing the hard, loving to take advantage, and being vain.
Since ancient times, it is indispensable to guard against people!
Next, I will share with you a few key points of human nature, I believe that if you can keep it in mind, it can also bring great changes to everyone's growth.
1. People are profit-seeking.
The most stable relationship between people must be the relationship of interests, and only if you can continue to bring benefits to others, your relationship can last for a long time, which is also human nature.
You have to understand that if you don't exchange rice for chicken in your hand, you won't come to call **, so you have to Xi the indifference of everyone when you are at your low, after all, this is also human nature.
Only when you make yourself more valuable, know how to look at it from the perspective of interests, and deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships, will your life and work be smoother and smoother.
2. Walk with the strong.
As the saying goes:The strong are always strong, and the weak are always weak!
You must remember to be friends with the strong, because usually the weaker the person, the more things will happen, and the stronger the person, the fewer things will happen.
The weak are not only incompetent, but also mostly selfish, they can only pretend to be themselves in their hearts, and like to be picky, accusatory, and complain about others.
The strong person is not only capable, high in wisdom, but also relatively broad-minded, knows how to use cooperation, many times people only know how to cooperate in order to produce 1 + 1 2 results.
3. Be cruel to yourself.
There is a way to be:People are not ruthless, and they are not steady;If the heart is not ruthless, it is difficult to gain a foothold.
You must know that there is no one who can't endure hardship, most of the strong are more ruthless to themselves, this is forced out, and usually success can only belong to the strong, and the weak are destined to be eliminated.
Most people who are stronger than you have suffered more than you, and if you keep lying flat, you will eventually face elimination.
So you must be ruthless to yourself and do everything you can to overcome the weakness in your human nature, otherwise when you are eliminated, you will not have the slightest qualification to resist and complain, and you are what you deserve to be eliminated by society.
4. Know how to do things against humanity.
As the saying goes:There is nothing difficult in the world.
But most people in the world have lost to the laziness of their own human nature, if you want to succeed and win, you must pay more than others.
To put it simply, others rest and you learn Xi, others play, you do things, only in this way can you have more opportunities and choices than others.
If this is the case for a long time, you will definitely be able to surpass the more than 90 people around you, and if you want to be invincible, only by constantly improving your value and ability through learning Xi is the foundation of your survival.