Hello, I'm Xiaoqian
Life is a big drama, no matter how well you sing, you will usher in the final chapter.
People, when they reach a certain age, have a lot of experience. I used to work hard for my dreams, and I also knew how to slow down the pace of life at the right time to welcome the arrival of old age.
Immanuel Kant said, "Freedom is not self-mastery." ”When people are over fifty, they must learn to manage their own lives. The best way to live with self-discipline in your later years is probably like this.
In our community, when I saw a group of people gathered around, it seemed that there was a conflict between a husband and wife.
Everyone chattered and discussed, and some people spoke very ugly words, naming names, which aroused more people's curiosity.
Aunt Zhang, a neighbor, passed by, picked me up and left, saying don't join in this kind of excitement, go and go busy with your own things.
When she said this, I remembered that I still had to pick up the child, and it was almost late.
I couldn't help but ask her if she knew what was going on, Aunt Zhang knew some, but she didn't say. She said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, everyone is a neighbor, and it is respect for others not to spread rumors or make trouble.
In my heart, I admire Aunt Zhang's sobriety.
When people are old, no matter what they do, as long as it has nothing to do with them, they will speak less.
Venerable Xuecheng said in "Speak Well": "Although it is simple to speak, it is not a trivial matter. What you say is important. Hurting someone with simple words can have a lot of consequences. ”In old age, you must be measured and have a bottom line.
Focus on your own life, don't envy others if they are doing well, and don't despise others if they are not doing well.
Don't be too curious about other people's private affairs, take care of yourself, and don't get into trouble. If you treat everything with a normal heart, your life will be calmer and more peaceful.
Wealth is the foundation of a happy life.
After the age of fifty, most of the people who are good at managing their money do not live badly.
A line in "True Love: "I don't love money, but I know that money can bring independence and freedom, and what I like is an independent and free life." ”Have a clear sense of management of your own finances, and know how to build a "reservoir" of funds.
Accumulate a certain amount of wealth for yourself, and have money in your hands, so that you will not panic.
At the same time, you must also know how to protect the safety of your funds, stay away from those who are full of routines, and not be deceived.
Use appropriate methods to grow your wealth and strive to maintain a healthy financial model in which income outstrips expenses.
Don't go into debt, and know how to avoid possible risks in the future.
Take a correct view of your own ability, give full play to your potential, and let your capital reserves have more room for growth.
If you do what you can and constantly optimize your financial situation, you will reap a better life.
Qiu Xiaoxia in "Life Home", she raised her daughter Qiu Dongna alone.
My daughter graduated from college and got a good job.
Qiu Xiaoxia accompanied her daughter through many difficult years, and when her daughter found happiness, she did not choose to rely on her, but to be self-reliant.
In her later years, she always had a job, and she also ran a barbecue restaurant with trusted people, trying to realize her own value.
When you are old, as long as you still have the ability to work, you should not bother your children too much.
Live your own beautiful life, with a clear mind, financial independence and full of charm.
In many families, the child grows up, but the parents cannot quit the dependence on the child. Always want to keep him by his side and ask for more company.
Or, meddling in the children's marriage and career brings a lot of troubles to the children, and they can't get along with each other.
After the age of 50, you must know how to let go of your children and let them plan and manage their own lives.
Give your children more support, understanding, and trust. After the children**, take back your thoughts. Find something for yourself to do, enrich yourself, and live a happier life.
Get along with your children, don't disturb each other, and give each other a certain amount of space. Keeping your distance makes it easier to maintain intimacy with each other.
In old age, plan for your old age.
People are older, they should be mature and steady, say less about right and wrong, and don't get into trouble.
Learn to open sources and reduce expenditure, make money according to your own situation, calculate how to spend money, and keep your savings. Spend time with your children, keep your distance, and learn to let go.
In his later years, he lived his own chic and open-minded life, and took his life seriously in his later years.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.