There are many fates in life, some people don't have the chance to see each other again, while some people will always be by their side and become a part of life.
When the fate comes, it gathers, and when it ends, it disperses.
In a person's life, there will always be many people who have gone through their own lives, some people are destined to accompany them all their lives, and some people are just passers-by in life.
As there is a saying in "Dream of Red Mansions": "Life is a dream, and waking up from a dream is empty."
In fact, the end of a relationship does not mean that the relationship has come to an end, on the contrary, it only tells us that fate is over.
So, when you find a woman in a relationship who takes the initiative to tell you three things, it means that she has given up on the relationship.
Because when she has no nostalgia for this relationship, she will no longer take the initiative to say anything to you.
I won't talk to you about the past anymore.
A woman who has you in her heart will often mention her and your past in front of you, not to tell you how wronged she is, but to relieve the pressure in her heart through your listening.
And if a woman no longer talks to you about the past, it means that she has no nostalgia for the relationship, so she doesn't want to talk to you about the past anymore.
Just like Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu in "The Family of Gold Powder", Jin Yanxi has always had deep feelings for Leng Qingqiu, but when he saw Leng Qingqiu to himself, he no longer wanted to marry her.
So when he understood his heart, he simply cut off contact with Leng Qingqiu. Later, when Leng Qingqiu became pregnant unexpectedly, he chose to divorce her and no longer loved her.
Because she already felt that the fate between the two people had come to an end, she chose to leave.
Don't tell you anything bad about her anymore.
When a woman tells you that she is bad in a relationship, she is actually insecure.
Because she doesn't believe in you, and she doesn't believe that this relationship can go to the end, she will test you by saying that she is not good, so that you can always be by her side.
Because of this, she can feel that she is needed, not abandoned.
But if a woman no longer tells you that she is bad, but starts to tell you that she is good, it actually means that she no longer loves you.
Because loving someone requires tolerance, and when a woman no longer loves you, she will naturally no longer tolerate you.
Because they don't want to make you sad anymore, and they don't want to make themselves the outcasts anymore.
So when they start telling you that they're good, they're actually hinting to you, "We're done."
It is only when a woman is really disappointed in the relationship that she will start telling you that she is not good.
No more talking to you about love.
Women's yearning for love can be said to be innate, because they are born romantics.
So, when they face love, there will always be some wild fantasies.
As Zhang Ailing said in "Red Roses and White Roses": "Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two." married a red rose, and over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed";married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. ”
Therefore, when a woman no longer tells you anything about love, it actually means that she has no expectations for this relationship.
Because they know that they have no expectations in this relationship, they will naturally not invest in their enthusiasm anymore.