The ex is like a white moonlight in the hearts of many women, because there have been many good things, because they can never go back, because they feel precious because they have lost, so they will always think of the advantages of their predecessors and the warmth of their predecessors.
However, you must know that the reason why he became your ex must also be a reason why you can't be together, and if you can be together, maybe you won't break up in the first place.
Here, I'll start with a story of getting back together with my ex:
The girl who graduated from high school carefully found a handsome and handsome graduate student boyfriend, and she loved her boyfriend very much, but since she brought her home to meet her careful parents, she was careful of her parents: "Do you have a plan for your future?".”
One sentence annoyed the sensitive boyfriend from the rural predicament, who was reluctant to enter the door of the careful house again, and was much more indifferent to the cautious one.
If Careful did not contact him, he never took the initiative to contact Careful, and later, Careful was interfered with by his parents and was forced to calm down for a while instead of going to his boyfriend. A month has passed, and the two have never been in touch and are in a state of breakup.
I can't forget my boyfriend's deep eyes, the knowledgeable conversation, and the bright and beautiful eyes when my boyfriend smiles at her. Finally couldn't help it, she went to find her boyfriend again, and the two got back together with their careful parents.
However, every time I talk about my careful parents, my boyfriend always complains, like an enemy. This is the most unacceptable to Caution, and I feel uneasy in my heart.
Once, when it came to their future marriage, she said that her parents wanted her ......Her boyfriend unceremoniously interrupted her and said, "I know your parents look down on me, and I really can't meet your parents' demands." “
Since then, he has been depressed there, making his heart full of grievances, no wonder his girlfriend said: It must be difficult to be happy in a marriage that is not blessed by his parents.
She felt a little unhappy in her heart this time, because she knew that her boyfriend was not only poor, but also overly sensitive and suspicious, and her parents were right, they were indeed not the same kind of people, they were loving now, and it would be difficult to say that they would live an ordinary life in the future.
But she still insisted, she knew that no one was perfect, she especially admired her boyfriend's talent, she felt that over time, her boyfriend would definitely have a future in the future, and when the time came, his personality might be much better.
On New Year's Day, he carefully followed her boyfriend to visit his widowed mother, who was very happy at first, but after seeing that Careful was wiping the chair with a napkin, she was much colder to Careful, and stared at Careful with a questioning look.
I asked my boyfriend a few times, and my boyfriend told the truth, it turned out that my boyfriend's mother didn't like to be careful, she liked her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and the girl was also from the countryside, and as soon as she entered her boyfriend's house, she rolled up her sleeves and worked, capable and well-behaved.
Be careful and feel a little cooler in her heart, she finally knows that the love between him and her boyfriend is that the two of them are fighting alone. Without the approval and support of his family, the relationship did not last long.
In a fight with her boyfriend, Careful was completely chilled and proposed to break up, but her boyfriend didn't say a word to save him, and he looked arrogant and arrogant, which made Caution's heart ache inexplicably.
She really regretted why she wanted to get back together, she broke up like that at the beginning, and they both left a good impression on each other, and this time after getting to know each other better, it seems that there is no longer any desire to love.
Therefore, as with caution, many lovers who have broken up are still not happy after getting back together, because the same problems that caused the breakup before are still there.
Therefore, since he is already an ex and has broken up, no matter how beautiful it is, it has become a thing of the past, and it is an unreliable practice to remember and miss his ex. It's better to let go of each other after breaking up and let each other's love become a good memory.
Empty your heart, let the past pass, and let the future have a chance to come. It is wisest to accept or be prepared to accept the most suitable current or successor, rather than wasting one's youth in unrealistic memories.