The gaokao is a turning point in a student's life, but as the number of students increases, the competition for the gaokao becomes more and more intense. However, not all parents guide their children properly in the name of noble love, on the contrary, some parents abuse their power towards their children and cause them undeserved suffering. A happy childhood can last a lifetime, while an unhappy childhood takes a lifetime to make up for it. In homeschooling, there is no set standard for what constitutes a qualified parent, which makes many novice parents fumbling their way forward. However, not every parent can become a qualified parent, and some selfish behaviors not only hurt the feelings between the child and the parents, but also leave an indelible wound on the child. Domestic violence is essentially even clothed"The coat of home", but also acts of violence. Under the guise of loving their children, these parents are the ones who hurt them the most, ignoring the consequences of domestic violence and forever etching the shadow of violence in their children's hearts. Modern children are sensitive and fragile at heart, and what they need is love, not criticism, belittling, and verbal abuse. The article will focus on the real case of a 16-year-old girl who suffered domestic violence because she did not take the 985 exam, so as to call for more attention to the problem of domestic violence.
Among the cases of domestic violence published by the Supreme Court, a high-profile incident was mentioned. The client in this case was a 16-year-old girl who was assigned to her father's custody after her parents divorced. However, the father's domestic violence caused the young girl to suffer unimaginable pain.
The girl took the college entrance examination in 2022, but unfortunately she failed to get into the 985 university. This made the father even more demanding of the girl, who demanded that the girl must repeat the school, and began to teach the girl privately during the summer vacation. Even though school has opened, fathers still do not allow girls to go to school.
The girl's grandmother found out in the second half of 2022 that the girl had her hair cut by her father. The incident alarmed the grandmother, who realized that the girl did not have enough to eat, bathed in cold water in winter, and was cut off from the outside world. After much persuasion to no avail, my grandmother had no choice but to turn to the local women's federation for help.
When it comes to homeschooling, most parents are confused and lost. Since there is no clear template, no specific requirements, and no unified standards, parents can only continue to test and learn in the process of crawling and Xi. This also means that not every parent can become a qualified parent.
Some parents, for their own reasons, impose their wishes and demands on their children, hurting their emotions and leaving a deep shadow on them. Even when their children do not meet their parents' expectations, some parents do not hesitate to commit violence to their children, ignoring the damage to their young minds.
Domestic violence is a serious act of violence, and no matter how many reasons and excuses it may seem on the surface, its essence is always to harm the weak. Domestic violence not only affects the physical and mental health of the victim, but also has a negative impact on the entire family. Therefore, we must actively pay attention to and stop domestic violence.
Modern children grow up in a different environment than in the past, and their ability to resist stress and psychological conditions are different from those of the past. Children who are only children are more sensitive and vulnerable and need more love and care. If parents are unable to adapt to the needs of modern children's family education and blindly continue the educational concepts of the past, they will be more and more wrong.
Communication in the family is the foundation for building a harmonious parent-child relationship. Parents should listen to their children, understand their needs and problems, and respect their choices. At the same time, parents should also convey the right values and morals to their children, so that they can learn the right way to communicate and solve problems.
Family education should not only focus on whether children can be admitted to good universities, but more importantly, cultivate children's character and ability, so that they can become responsible and responsible people. Parents should respect their children's personalities and interests, help them explore their potential, and provide appropriate support and guidance.
Family education is an indispensable part of every child's growth, and the right home education can allow children to get a healthy development and a happy childhood. However, domestic violence exists in many families, causing irreparable harm to children. We should have a deep understanding of the seriousness of domestic violence and strengthen social attention and support for family education to protect children from domestic violence. Every child has the right to be loved and respected, and their lives should be up to them. Finally, I hope that we can work together to create a harmonious family environment free of domestic violence.