Faced with the problem of her boyfriend's smoking, many girls feel troubled and helpless. Quitting smoking is indeed a very difficult process, and for smokers, quitting smoking is no less difficult than getting a person who is addicted to a game to suddenly give up on it.
The story of Lin Zexu's smoking ban tells us that even in the face of life-and-death threats, smoking addiction is still difficult to overcome. Those who try to threaten men to quit smoking with the dangers of smoking, harm to family members, children, or even divorce often end in failure. Because the addiction to cigarettes is too strong, once it is infected, it is difficult to get rid of it.
Some people use breakup as a threat when they are in a relationship and successfully get their boyfriend to quit smoking, but this situation is only a minority after all. Moreover, this practice does not guarantee that your boyfriend will actually quit smoking, because you can't watch him 24 hours a day.
Therefore, the best way to do this is to avoid looking for smokers when looking for a partner. If you have already found a boyfriend who smokes and you really want him to quit, then you need to be patient to help him, encourage him, and you need to accept the possible consequences of his failure to quit, not with threats or coercion.
A friend of mine managed to get her husband to quit smoking. She directly told the other party on a blind date that she was not looking for a boyfriend who smoked, and if she could quit, she would consider continuing to get along. Now their sons are a few years old, and her husband has never smoked again.
So, if you really don't like people who smoke, you should find someone who doesn't smoke in a relationship. Asking a smoker to quit smoking for you is no less difficult than going to the sky. Search Topic Full Time Challenge December