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Have you ever imagined what you would be like when you were seventy?Is it surrounded by laughter and laughter of the children and grandchildren under the knees, or does no one know if people go to tea and cool?When we are young, we must have a vision of our lives in old age.
But the reality of the situation will not always follow our will, after all, things backfire often appear in various things in life, after people are old, many things are involuntarily, and there is no weakness in life.
And people have to face the reduction of their personal value when they get old, maybe some people disagree with this point of view, after all, some people are still shining in their field when they are old, but we are talking about the vast majority of the elderly here, not just individuals.
The elderly are one of the most vulnerable groups in society, they have gone through a long life journey and accumulated too much life experience and wisdom. However, as they get older, they face more and more life and family problems.
Among them, the family situation is one of the most concerned issues for the elderly, so the final tragedy of a person is not that he does not have too many heirs, nor is he facing the threat of death, but when he is 70 years old, the family will have such a situation
The first is the situation where the family is unable to take care of them, because the physical functions of the elderly are gradually declining, they need more and more care from their families, and even become more dependent on their family members psychologically.
However, in today's fast-paced society, people are getting farther and farther away from each other, and the relationship between people is becoming more and more tense.
And now young people are also under a lot of pressure, not only need to take care of their small family, but also need to take care of their parents, so they often need to spend a lot of time and energy on work, and most of the rest of the time will be in their own family.
For parents who have aged more occasionally, there are more visits during the holidays, but for many old people, such a life is undoubtedly lonely, especially when people are 70 years old, if there is no wife around.
Then their lives are more lonely, and in such a situation, many elderly families are facing an isolated situation after the age of 70, even if there is something to call someone, they cannot arrive at the scene in time.
In such a family, the elderly live a very lonely life, lacking family love and attention. They may suffer from various geriatric diseases, and without the care of their families, they will often aggravate the torment of geriatric diseases and seriously affect their physical health.
The second situation is the conflict of family relations, which can manifest itself in many ways, such as the estrangement between parents and children, the conflict between the daughter-in-law and the parents-in-law, or the conflict between the son and the daughter-in-law of the elderly, or other relationships.
But no matter what kind of contradiction it is, once it happens, it will make people feel that they are often troubled, especially since the family is an important part of the life of the elderly, but the family relationship often becomes a major problem for the elderly.
After the age of 70, the elderly in some families face the pain of family conflicts, such as the family's incomprehension, or the family's lack of attention, because many elderly people will gradually become a family "** person" after they are old.
Because they can no longer bring more value to the family, and more often than not, they need to ask for it from the family, so it is very easy to have friction between parents and children over time.
In such a family, the elderly may become victims of family conflicts, and their opinions are often ignored or trivialized, or even excluded from the family, unable to receive good attention and attention from their families.
We can't be sure which party is at fault, but if the elderly have big problems in western Zhejiang, it can only mean that their family life is full of disharmony and contradictions, and life will become more and more difficult.
But is it really just a burden to the family when people get old?Absolutely not, the elderly after the age of 70 are often an important asset for a family.
At this time, the elderly only need a good living and family environment to live a safe and happy life. However, this is not possible for all seniors.
Some elderly people often feel extremely desolate because they lack the warmth of family affection and the stability of their families. In such an environment, the mental and physical health of the elderly will be seriously affected, and even cause various geriatric diseases.
At the same time, it is also necessary to encourage the whole society to attach importance to the contributions and rights and interests of the elderly, strengthen their care and social support, and realize their dignity and respect for their lives in society. We appeal!Let us use practical actions to escort the life of the elderly in their later years.
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