In daily life, we can always hear: "If you don't hit the south wall, you won't look back, and you won't die until you reach the heart of the Yellow River".
It usually refers to those who are one-dimensional and unwilling to be flexible.
They are unable to free themselves from false ideas or behaviors, as if they are intoxicated by a dream, and it is difficult to wake them up.
Indeed, it is often not the gentleman's kind words that wake up a person, but the stumbling of the villain.
Gentleman's good words refer to those who are moral and cultivated.
They usually use gentle, sensible language to express their opinions and ideas.
Their words are often philosophical, enlightening and thought-provoking.
Sometimes, however, these kind words don't really wake up a person.
Why can't a gentleman's kind words wake up a person?
On the one hand, it is because although kind words are rational and gentle, they lack sufficient emotional resonance.
Sometimes, we need to be emotionally touched to truly realize the seriousness of the problem.
On the other hand, it may also be because kind words are often only from a moral and ethical point of view, without taking into account the actual situation and needs of the individual.
On the contrary, villains stumble and tend to wake up a person more effectively. This is because villains' words are often offensive and provocative, capable of reaching directly into the depths of a person's heart.
When a person is stung by the words of the villain, they tend to feel negative emotions such as anger, frustration, disappointment, etc.
These emotions can make them more aware of their problems and make changes.
Of course, we are not encouraging the use of villains to wake up a person.
Instead, we should use gentlemanly words to guide and help others as much as possible.
However, we should also be aware that sometimes, it is only through the stumbling of the villain that we can really wake up a person.