01 Tongcheng, Anhui Province, a six-foot alley, carries a good story. During the Kangxi reign of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Ying, a scholar of Wenhuadian University and a scholar of the Ministry of Rites, received a letter from his hometown. The letter stated that in order to build a house, the family had a dispute with the Wu family, and the family asked Zhang Ying to use the power in his hands to sanction the Wu family. However, Zhang Ying replied: "A paper book, why do you need three feet for the wall?"The Great Wall is still standing, and there is no Qin Shi Huang in the past. The family understood Zhang Ying's intention and took the initiative to give up the three-foot distance. The Wu family also felt that it was inappropriate, and they retreated one after another, so Six Feet Lane became it.
This was handled properly, and the two families resolved the conflict. Blood is thicker than water, and neighbors should be tolerant and tolerant, and don't worry too much. On the issue of building houses in rural areas, disputes often arise over trivial matters. Ms. Wu personally reported that several uncles in her family had quarreled over building a house, and we will listen to one of the fierce episodes.
02 When Ms. Wu returned to her hometown, she saw that the old house was dilapidated, and remembered that 20 years ago, her uncle had a big fight to build a house. Grandpa had two sons, her father and her uncle. The houses of the two families were built next to each other. The son of the uncle in the lobby divorced and returned home, and he needed to rebuild the house in order to remarry. The village persuaded them to build a house in the new village, but Uncle Lobby's family was unwilling to spend an extra 20,000 yuan and insisted on building it in the old village. To widen the site, they planned to occupy the alley, which aroused opposition from Uncle Xiaotang's family.
03 The uncle in the lobby and the uncle in the small hall had a dispute and put pressure on the grandfather and grandmother. Uncle Lobby and his wife were dissatisfied with Uncle Cousin's refusal, which led to a big quarrel with Grandma. Grandma tries to win over all parties, including her uncle. But the grandfather was embarrassed and asked Ms. Wu's father to solve it. The uncle's refusal to demolish the house led to a heated argument with his grandmother.
04 The uncle in the lobby put pressure on Grandma, and the quarrel caused Grandma to fall ill. In the dispute, Grandma unfortunately passed away. Grandma's death sparks a fight and the situation descends into chaos. Finally, Uncle Lobby paid a certain amount of compensation to Uncle Lobby's family, reached a consensus, and built a new house. The contradiction was resolved, and people began to disperse.
05 More than 20 years later, the old house was unused, and my parents moved into a house in the city. The uncle and aunt moved to the cousin's house, and the cousin's family was in the new village. Because he could not occupy the two homesteads, his uncle's old house was demolished. Uncle Xiaotang's family later built a new house in the new village, and the old house was also demolished. The son of Uncle Lobby remarried, and they moved into the city. Now, only the parents' house and the uncle's house are still standing, but they have long been dilapidated.
Looking back, the family members who had quarreled over the house have long since dispersed. There are many things in life that are not worth thinking too much about. Take advantage of a little advantage, others may not be willing. Be open-minded, take a peek, and don't be too careful. As Zhang Ying said: "What's the point of letting him be three feet?."Take a step back and open the sky. "Get along with others, be more tolerant, less disputed, and live a better life.