1. Parents' partiality over sons is not new, so for parents with two daughters at home, how will they treat their two daughters separately?
In the TV series "Xiaomin's Family", Wang Sumin's mother in "Xiaomin's Family" is obviously partial to her two daughters. Liu Xiaominis the meat of her heart, and Liu Xiaojie is an ordinary person. In the eyes of his mother, Liu Xiaojie has not received enough attention and love. However, even so, she didn't care too much or complained, but has been silently suffering this injustice. And on the other hand,Liu XiaominIt is to enjoy the preference of the mother,lifeon got more care and attention. This difference is undoubtedly an injustice to the two daughters. Their personalities and development are also different as a result.
Liu Xiaominand Liu Xiaojie, both sisters are beautiful and outstanding girls. However, they have very different personalities and ways of dealing with the world. Liu XiaominIt looks more well-behaved and quiet, and has a steady personality;Liu Xiaojie, on the other hand, is a lively and outgoing person who is more cheerful. This difference in personality also affects their growth andlifein the experience.
Liu Xiaominand Liu Xiaojie, the two sisters were not very good in their childhood. Mother Wang Sumin is facing difficulties in survival because of the divorce, and she has to bear all the responsibilities aloneStress。In such a situation, Wang Sumin will naturally pay more attention and rest assuredLiu Xiaomin, she thinksLiu XiaominThe personality is steady, and it will be more worry-free. And Liu Xiaojie is a lively and cheerful child, which will naturally bring more troubles and worries to Wang Sumin. In this kind of single-parent family, Wang Sumin does not have much time and energy to take care of her two children, so she will choose to be more worry-freeLiu Xiaomin, and there is a certain partiality towards Liu Xiaojie.
This eccentricity manifests itself in everyday lifelifeis also obvious. For example, when eating, Wang Sumin will giveLiu XiaominEat cordyceps and drink lotus seed white fungus soup, and for Liu Xiaojie, her request is "What do you make up for your young age?".This simple detail also reflects Wang Sumin's partiality and neglect of Liu Xiaojie in his heart. This lack of caring attitude, for Liu Xiaojie, will make her more eager to get the attention and love of the outside world. This is also why Liu Xiaojie is hereMarriageone of the reasons for vulnerability.
Liu Xiaojie is hereMarriageThe experience can also be seen in the negative impact of her mother's preference for her. She had previously chosen a mom boy who only cared about games, friends, and mother, and was indifferent to Liu Xiaojie. This paragraphMarriageIn the end, it ended in divorce, and the house was ransacked by her mother-in-law and ex-husband. Subsequently, Liu Xiaojie found another man, Xu Zheng, although he was handsome in appearance, in fact, he was suspicious, eventful, and careful. Such feelings are full of Liu XiaojieStressand negative effects, which can even lead to more problems.
In addition, Liu Xiaojie's prejudice and selfishness were gradually exposed. She lacks affection, so it's easy to fall into the trap of a man who is good to her because she craves to be loved. She also has her own advantages, such as hard work and success in her career, she started to have a career, make money, and own a house and a car very early. However, inMarriagehas not been smooth, she first found a mother's treasure man, and then found a ** man. This emotional state makes her feel suffocated, and it is likely to cause more problems. Xu Zheng's ** behavior has begun to be revealed, and although someone is there to protect her, she can't see it.
Liu XiaominGradually, the mother's eccentricity became aware of it and expressed her complaints. Wang Sumin isLiu XiaominWhen taking care of children, they are directly looking forLiu Xiaomin。And whereasLiu XiaominofMarriageOn the issue, she thinks that her mother arranged this one selectivelyMarriage, it was only because of some misunderstandings that I was misunderstood and cheated. She left Beijing, gradually grew up, had a successful career, and had her own house. But she also complained about her mother's partiality, and there was a relationship between mother and daughterMarriageThe controversy,Liu Xiaominexpressed his gratitude to his mother for arranging thisMarriageand explained and justified that he did not cheat. Wang Su was sensitively injured, she felt that what she did was out of good intentions, taking care of the children for her daughter, worrying about her, but she received complaints. In the evening, Wang Sumin came to the small square and looked at the old people dancing in the square and felt helpless and lost. And at this time, pamperedLiu Xiaominmade fun of his mother, hoping that she could care more about herself.
The plot of this drama reflects the phenomenon of patriarchal preference in the family and its impact on children. Parental partiality can lead to jealousy and resentment among children, and for neglected children, they may feel psychologically lonely and depressed. Children who are favored may tend to become overly self-conscious and lack care and empathy for others. This kind of family environment has an important impact on the growth and development of children, and requires more attention and attention from parents. At the same time, parents should also be aware of their partiality and strive to change this injustice and give their children equal love and attention. Only in an environment of equality can children truly grow up healthily and develop their own unique personalities and talents.