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The Raising of a Vulgar Girl is a ** created by Jiang Ge with her own growth experience as the background, telling the story of an ordinary girl gradually growing up in the background of the alternation of the old and the new. This book is a true portrait of contemporary women, about their upbringing, the pressures and choices they faced. The classic quotes in the book emphasize women's self-perception and independence, as well as their responsibilities and burdens in the family and society.
Excerpt from the classic quotations of "The Cultivation of a Vulgar Girl:
1: Every girl eventually grows into an unsatisfactory woman, and none of them are the same. The only thing we often feel as women is that there is always something we are not good enough for, for our parents, for our family, for our uterus and ovaries, for ourselves, before and after others, voluntarily or forced, there is always someone we apologize for.
2: Even though we are all living in such an era of drastic re-examination of human rights, there are still many women who, because of pressure, love, or constraints, choose their own or involuntarily devote themselves to traditional roles, and carry the burden of responsibility. Whether you want it or not, it's difficult.
3: Let women recognize reality, this is Jishi.
4: Some foods may be harmful to your health in the future, but they can definitely bring immediate comfort. One does not need to sacrifice the happiness of the present in order to worry about the future. After all, if you are too unhappy now, how can you have the strength to care about whether you will be happy in the future?
5: An indispensable part of family life is for adults to cope with the absurdity of the times with their children
6: The deep emotional foundation allows me and my grandma to restore a good relationship between grandparents and grandchildren after all, even if I understand that each other's love will have boundaries in some aspects, it does not prevent each other from giving to each other in other aspects. There is no way to be black and white in the love between family members, and interdependence is to wear and repair at the same time.
7: Looking up at the generations before my parents, the only thing worth exchanging for health is money, and looking down at the generations after me, there is nothing worth exchanging for health.
8: As long as people are in the rivers and lakes, there will always be a scene that has to pass, and you can't laugh without losing money, you have practiced when you were a child, maybe it is easier than having to practice when you grow up.
9: Parents and others often expect us to have a more decent and practical partner out of care or social constraints, but our happiness immediately fades from its original shine at the moment of every comparison, minus a little strength, and the difficulties of life are fatter.
10: The so-called social standards make the vast majority of women have to work hard to barely pass, but it is obvious that people find that the standards are not reasonable. If everyone shrugs their shoulders and says, "Okay, okay, okay", support yourself with confidence, affirm that every decision you make is the best at the moment, I believe that I am the best me at the moment, don't worry about things that can't be done, in fact, the sky will not fall, but we will be much more comfortable.
11: I hereby solemnly invite you to grasp the limited life, shrug your shoulders together, and support this excellent and ordinary self, those things that need to be worked on, no one will steal them for a while anyway.
12: Dear self, I want to say to you, I'm sorry, thank you, I love you.
Female growth