Walking from a village in the mountains to the hustle and bustle of Guangzhou, I am really not used to it. As soon as I graduated from junior high school, I got mixed with my fellow villagers, and I was used to picking flowers all over the mountain, and in a blink of an eye, I became an iron man in the factory.
In the third year, I met a chick from Hebei, Xiaojuan, in the factory. The two of us also have fate, and we started chatting from eating a boxed lunch in a corner. Two years have passed in an instant. The proprietress has a very poisonous mouth, but I've always been a straightforward person. The two planned to go to her house for the New Year.
But it's not that simple. First of all, I had to discuss with my dad in advance, or if I could climb the hill myself, my mom and dad would carry a basket for me to eat. Dad is refreshing, and it is recommended to wait for others to agree. But what about me, how can I wait?So I went for it.
When I arrived at Xiaojuan's hometown, let alone me, even the screenwriter of the TV series couldn't write this plot. The two of us chose to stay in a small hotel in the county seat, respecting the local customs, not rashly visiting people's homes, and letting Xiaojuan go back to discuss first.
As a result, the reaction of Xiaojuan's side made me fall from the clouds to the bottom of the valley at once. Her father was angry, not ordinary angry, but the kind of angry and aggressive anger. Before I could figure out what was going on, he began to talk to me about the state of their family and his bitterness in the fields.
I thought to myself, this is not good, I have to take care of it. But the old man's attitude became harder and harder, and he directly expressed his disagreement with the two of us being together. Just when I was helpless, he gave me a slap with a wave of his hand. This confused me and immediately provoked a heated argument.
When I was lost, my father persuaded me to go back and wait, maybe there would be a drama. But Xiaojuan, out of anger and disappointment, proposed to go back together, maybe she could be relieved sooner. The two of us discussed, and while Dad was packing, the two of us slipped away.
When I got home, I thought my dad might understand me. As a result, he didn't care so much. Apathy, anger, almost like the north wind in winter. My dad also added fuel to the fire and almost did something to me.
The whole hometown was in chaos, relatives surrounded the fight, chickens and dogs jumped, and it almost didn't become a joke. After the pickaxe incident, my father finally calmed down and reminded me to walk right and sit upright. I stared at him with wide eyes, thinking that this was the only time I began to care about me
In the days of the Chinese New Year, the house was in a mess, and parents and relatives were nagging. My dad just ignored me, and the atmosphere in the whole house was even hotter than the Spring Festival temple fair.
One night, I was in a daze in the yard when my dad suddenly came over with a frown. He glared at me, and his tone was solemn: "You're smart, why don't you want to think about whether your Xiaojuan can really start a family?"”
My heart sank, seeing my father like this, I didn't feel good. He went on to say, "Impulse what?".Do you look back at those who have started a family in our village, how many of them are not working hard to live?Do you think you're done with a daughter-in-law?The days after marriage are not just about talking and laughing. ”
I'm a little dumbfounded, what's wrong with Dad?He suddenly went from a volcanic eruption to a crowded state. Seeing that I didn't react, he continued: "Have you thought about it?".You two are married, do you know who her father is?Do you have any worries about other people's family affairs?”
I was stunned by the question, and it really caught me off guard. My father seemed to see my confusion and sighed: "Child, marriage is not a matter of two people, you have to think about it together." ”
I muttered, "But didn't her father and mother just disagree?"”
Dad's eyes widened: "That's now." What about the future?After you have passed the first moment, people will be unhappy, and maybe the water will be muddy. ”
I scratched my head and couldn't speak for a moment. Seeing that I was silent, my father waved his hand: "You don't have to worry, wait and see, maybe there will be a chance." ”
As she was talking, Xiaojuan walked in, her eyes a little hesitant. Dad glanced at her and suddenly smiled: "Young man, don't worry about the two of you, you have to take your time." ”
Xiaojuan and I were stunned, why did this old man become so reasonable all of a sudden?Dad walked up to us and patted me on the shoulder: "Our family also has to be a little graceful, and people are not unreasonable anyway." This matter has to be talked about slowly, and the twisted melon is not sweet. ”
Xiaojuan looked puzzled, and I was also confused. Dad's sudden change was a bit unexpected. He looked at us and said, "All right, let's go back." There are a lot of relatives and friends coming to visit the door these days, so don't make trouble. ”
Xiaojuan and I glanced at each other, and had to go back to the house obediently. Nothing was said all night. The next day, my dad walked around the village and helped him say a lot of good things. I'm a little confused, what is he doing?
At night, my father and I sat in the yard, smoking dry tobacco. He sighed and sighed a little emotionally: "Child, although our village is small, we also have to have a little face. If you are impulsive, you will lose face. ”
I muttered, "Why did you become so reasonable all of a sudden?"”
Dad smiled: "There are some things that you have to understand for yourself." I'm your father, I can't let you go farther and farther, right?”
That's a bit of a gimmicky thing for me. My father patted me on the shoulder: "Child, home is the most important thing, you have to know how to balance it in order to live well." ”
I thought about it and nodded. Dad glanced at me and shook his head: "Don't just nod your head, you have to live a good life, you know?".”
I smiled, "Got it." ”
In this way, the atmosphere at home slowly calmed down. Xiaojuan and I also began to slowly ease our relationship, and we didn't have the previous rush for quick success. After a while, the two of us were like two slimy sugar gourds, sweet and sweet.
As the days passed, my mother-in-law saw that my father and I were safe, and she no longer made things difficult for me. We've slowly come to a good idea of getting along. Although Dad didn't like Xiaojuan, at least he didn't stop us.
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