When Qingqing gave birth to her son, her mother-in-law had not yet retired and was still working. My husband Ma Tao also has a younger sister who is in college. The mother-in-law said that she had to earn money for her daughter to go to college, so that Qingqing's mother-in-law would serve her. There was no way for Qingqing to let her mother-in-law come to serve her during confinement and take care of the children. Qingqing is a reasonable person, so she didn't embarrass her mother-in-law. begged her mother-in-law Zhou Yun to help her take care of the child. My parents gave birth to a daughter of her, and she has been like a pearl in her palm since she was a child. The daughter's confinement mother was unwilling to serve, so Zhou Yun hurriedly went through the early retirement procedures and came to her daughter's house to take care of the children.
Zhou Yun lived alone in his daughter's house for two years, leaving the old man alone in the old house, the old man had not yet reached retirement age and was still working. For the sake of their daughter's small family, the old couple had to live separately. Although Zhou Yun's family and his daughter's house are only more than ten kilometers apart, it is not easy to return home. Only on Sundays, when her daughter and son-in-law were resting, could she go home to see the old man. Help him cook a good meal, improve his life, tidy up the house, clean all the bedding, and then return to his daughter's house in the afternoon.
Two years later, the daughter became pregnant again. gave birth to a second daughter, and Zhou Yun couldn't go. One person with two children is so busy that she is on all fours. The daughter was distressed when she saw her mother lose weight. He begged his father to help his mother take care of the children, so that the old couple could live together and no longer worry about each other.
Zhou Yun and his wife take good care of their daughter and son-in-law's family, they have delicious meals for three meals a day, and the house is neat and clean in the morning and evening. A pair of children were taken care of by their grandparents and chubby, strong and gratifying. The two children are like a pair of porcelain dolls, which are lovely.
After living in his daughter's house, Zhou Yun rented out his house, and the rent collected was used to supplement his daughter's family. I have to eat at home, and I have to buy firewood, rice, oil, and salt. My daughter gave birth to two children and was delayed for two years and did not go to work. Now that I have to raise two children, I must be financially tight, and I have to help them if I can. She only received 1,000 yuan from her daughter to buy groceries, and the rest was the waist bag of the old couple.
In this way, the old couple lived in their daughter's house for five years. Zhou Yun has been with her daughter for eight years. In the past eight years, the young sister-in-law has graduated, got married, and had children. The sister-in-law's mother-in-law volunteered to take care of the child, and she didn't need Qingqing's mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law has also reached retirement age, and after completing the retirement procedures, she is idle at home and has nothing to do.
The mother-in-law saw that the two in-laws brought up the two grandchildren, the eldest grandson went to primary school, and the younger granddaughter also went to early education class. The two children saw their grandparents very affectionate, and they saw that her grandmother was the same as if they didn't know each other. It made her feel sad, and her heart was delicious and her eyes were red. She was even more afraid that the old couple would live in her son's house any longer, so she would stay at her son's house and let her son support his old age. I am just this one son, and I want to live with my son when I am old, and enjoy the joy of teasing my grandson. The more I thought about it in my heart, the more I looked forward to the two of my in-laws leaving their son's house as soon as possible. She and the old man moved into her son's house and lived with them.
She went to her son's ** and asked what he meant"Mom and your dad are both retired and have nothing to do at home, so they want to live in your house. Take care of the children for you, do the housework. Your father-in-law and mother-in-law have lived in your house for so many years, and it's time to go back. They have their own homes, so why do they live with you all the year round, they don't want you to retire in their old age, right?What should I do with your dad?We also want to move in with you, and you are not a son-in-law, so you have no obligation to provide for them. While they're all right, let them go home. If there's something wrong with them, it's hard for you to get them away. In the future, you will be their dependence, and you have to provide for them!″
Ma Tao also wants to live with his parents, after all, his parents-in-law are outsiders, and he doesn't feel convenient to be with his parents. After being with my parents-in-law for so many years, it's also a little annoying. Although the old couple are very good, they can't find fault. Even the old couple was afraid that he had ideas in his heart, so they always lowered their eyebrows in front of him, and never dared to say that he was not. But why does he feel that living with his parents is more like a family and lives a happier life. After having this thought, he felt that he looked at his parents-in-law differently. Slowly there was a disgusting mentality, although he felt that this was not good, but in order for his parents to live with them, he had to drive away his parents-in-law.
That night, he took advantage of Qingqing's good mood and cautiously told Qingqing"My parents are now retired and can come and help us with the children at home. Your parents have worked hard in our house for so many years, and it's time for them to rest. We can't let the old couple live in our house all the time to help us take care of the children, and it's time for my parents to worry about contributing, we have to let the old couple go home to enjoy two days of happiness!”
Why does this sound wrong?Qingqing instantly understood something, and she became angry"What do you mean by this, your parents are retired and have nothing to do at home, and they want to come to our house to help us take care of the children. My parents have worked hard for eight years, and now your parents are old and incapable of working, and they think of their grandchildren. Why did you go early, do you want to come to our house to retire?I guess I want to get rid of my parents. I gave birth to two children, I sat in confinement twice, and your mother never came to serve me once. They were busy earning money, and my parents retired early to take care of our children. Now that the child is older, he wants to come to our house and enjoy it. Your parents are so calculating, aren't they?!Treat my parents for fools. Is there anyone like your family?″
In order to drive his parents-in-law away, Ma Tao had no choice but to show his face. Since then, he has rarely spoken to them, and he no longer cares to greet them when he comes home from work. The two children were coquettish and frolicking in front of their grandparents, and he would scold them. When eating, he just held the bowl and pulled it to eat, and after the meal, he pushed the rice bowl and went back to the bedroom to play with his mobile phone. Unlike before, after eating, they had to help the two elderly people wipe the dirty oil particles on the dining table with a rag, mop the floor again, and then play with the children for a while before sleeping in the bedroom.
The sudden change in son-in-law, father-in-law and mother-in-law saw it in their eyes, and they couldn't help but wonder. I don't know what they did wrong, which made my son-in-law unhappy.
After a while, the son did not move. The mother-in-law was a little anxious, and called ** again to ask her son. Ma Tao couldn't sit still, so he had to have a showdown with his parents-in-law.
In the evening, when the family sat down to eat together, Ma Tao hesitated for a long time before he opened his mouth hesitantly"Mom and Dad, you have worked hard to take care of your two babies in the past two years. In the past eight years, the second elder has not enjoyed a single day of happiness, and I feel guilty about the second elder in my heart. My parents are retired now, and they want to come and help us take care of the children and let the second elder rest. This matter of bringing grandchildren should have been my parents' business, but the second elder has been doing it for so many years. Now that they want to bring it, let them come!"
Zhou Yun understood in his heart when he heard this, it turned out that his son-in-law was crossing the river and demolishing the bridge, and he was driving them away!Looking at her daughter again, her daughter's face instantly darkened, and she lowered her head and ate sullenly.
The old couple cleaned up the kitchen and returned to the bedroom to lie on the bed. Hearing a quarrel in his daughter's room, Zhou Yun hurriedly got up and prepared to persuade him. She had just walked to her daughter's door and listened with her ear to the door. It turned out that the little couple quarreled because the son-in-law wanted them to go and the daughter resolutely refused to let them, and the daughter was so sad that she cried quietly.
She hurriedly turned her head back to the bedroom, sighed, and repeated what she heard to her wife. The old couple was very sad in their hearts, and they were completely chilled by their son-in-law's behavior. After so many years of dedication, I can't get my son-in-law's knowledge of cold and heat, and I still get close to my biological parents. The old couple was stunned, but after so many years, the two grandsons were brought up by them, and they were reluctant to leave the two lovely children. But what if you don't leave?The son-in-law is obviously teasing people, can they live with an old face and a shy face?Since people don't like it, it's better to leave if you don't like it!Zhou Yun hurriedly gave his tenant a **, and he was willing to refund a month's rent. Let the tenants find time to move out, they are going back to live.
The next morning, the couple made breakfast. When his daughter and son-in-law had dinner, Zhou Yun told Qingqing and Ma Tao that they were ready to go home. Let the son-in-law pick up his parents to take care of the two children as soon as possible. Qingqing cried when she heard it, she begged her parents not to leave, but Zhou Yun insisted on leaving.
As soon as Zhou Yun and his family left, Qingqing went back to the bedroom and began to pack his luggage. When she came out with the rod box in tow, the two babies jumped up and hugged her legs.
Mom, don't go, don't leave us!”
Qingqing squatted down and hugged the two children and cried, "Mom can't stand your grandparents, it's my mother who is not capable of protecting grandparents." Mom wants to accompany them and take care of them for the rest of their lives!"
The eldest son, Xiaobao, was already sensible, and he looked back at Ma Tao hatefully, "Dad, I hate you!."My sister and I want to be taken care of by my grandmother and grandfather, not by my grandparents. My grandparents are old, and my mother and I will provide for them, so you don't have to worry about it!”
Ma Tao saw that his wife was leaving, and he was immediately anxious. He said good things to Qingqing and begged her not to abandon him and the child for the sake of the child.
Qingqing sneered"When we got married, you didn't have the money to buy a house, but my parents made a down payment of 300,000 yuan to buy a house. They are close to this family, and they have been a free nanny for us for eight years, and your parents are in **?You white-eyed wolf, let's live with your parents in the future!I went back to my parents' house to accompany my parents, and we got divorced!”
Qingqing said that she wanted a divorce, and Ma Tao was even more scared and panicked. He hurriedly apologized to his wife, and he said in a dumb voice: No ......, I'm not divorced!I'm not going to divorce you!I'd better bring my parents-in-law to live with me!”
You are delusional!"Qingqing yelled angrily"My parents won't come again, it can't be. If you don't want to get a divorce, you can return my parents' down payment of 300,000 to them. Let them have a pension guarantee, and give them another 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses!"
As long as Qingqing promised not to divorce, he would agree to whatever conditions she put forward now. When the wife is gone, the family is scattered. The wife asked him to make a choice, which showed that his wife was not desperate to part with him, and he nodded with joy again and again"Good!Good!I promise everything you say, and I promise to provide for my parents-in-law!