Have you ever heard of Singles Village?Today I will take you into a real "singles village" and see the story here.
The village where I am stationed for poverty alleviation is Singles Village, which is far away from the county seat, and the economic income is average, and many men cannot marry wives. There is a young man named Dumb in the village, who is 30 years old this year, and has not been able to marry a wife because his family is poor. Dumb's parents tried all kinds of ways for their son's marriage, and even spent all their family savings, but there was still no result. There are also many singles like Dumb in the village, some of them are poor families, some are not outstanding in appearance, and some are introverted and cannot find wives. These singles rarely communicate with the outside world, and lack social opportunities, which makes it more difficult for them to find their partners.
What is the reason for the formation of "singles villages" in rural areas of China?Why is it so difficult for men in these villages to find a partner?First of all, economic factors are an important reason for the formation of "singles villages". In some poor areas, men have to go out to work in order to make a living, while women are more likely to stay at home and take care of their families. As a result, the marriage market for local men is restricted, and it is difficult to find suitable partners. Secondly, some traditional concepts are also influencing the formation of "singles villages". In some places, the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is deeply entrenched, leading many families to not want their daughters to marry outside, but to marry men in their village or region. As a result, the range of marriage options for local men is even more limited. In addition, some men also have some problems of their own, such as lack of self-confidence, poor communication skills, etc., which can also affect their marriage market.
The emergence of these singles villages has had a great impact on society. First of all, these singles are facing tremendous psychological pressure. They are unable to form a family for a long time and cannot enjoy the warmth and happiness of the family, which leads to their prone to psychological problems such as low self-esteem, loneliness, and anxiety. Secondly, the singles village has also brought a lot of problems to the local society. Due to the lack of labor, the local economic development has been greatly affected. At the same time, due to the lack of family and affection, these singles are also prone to illegal and criminal behavior, which brings great pressure to local social security.
Bachelor. This is not only a social problem, but also a psychological one. How to solve the singles in the singles village. First, we need to address the root causes and increase rural women's access to education and employment opportunities, so that they have more choices and opportunities. Secondly, we can increase the opportunities for singles to meet women through blind dates, social **, etc. Finally, ** and social organizations can also provide some help, such as providing marriage introduction services, carrying out marriage education, etc. Solving the problem of singles requires the joint efforts of the whole society, let us cheer for these singles together, so that they can have happy families.
Author: Huang Zening, born in 1970, Zhuang nationality, from Tianlin County, Baise City, Guangxi, bachelor's degree in Chinese language and literature, certified writer of China Writers Database, member of Baise Writers Association. His works have been scattered in "China Network", "China Civilization Network", "Guangxi Civilization Network", "Guangxi **", "Guangxi News Network", "Youjiang **", "Baise News Network" and "March 3" magazine. Pseudonym: Ah Hei.