Author: Mu Xue.
Love is the most brilliant color on the stage of life, like the rising sun and the blooming flowers.
However, it is also like a drifting cloud, which makes us wander in doubt and uneasiness, and we can't help but think about the question that lies deep in our hearts:
Do the people we love love us just as much?
This uncertainty, like a thick fog hanging over our hearts, makes us wander in confusion, feeling confused and painful.
It is like an invisible claw, which binds us tightly in an atmosphere of uneasiness, from which we cannot break free.
So, how can you tell if a guy really loves you?In fact, you only need to look at these three points to know.
A man who truly loves you deeply will not only use gorgeous words to please you, but also express his love and cherishment for you with real actions.
His words are as warm as a spring breeze, and his actions are like a solid rock, sheltering you from the wind and rain, and making you feel endless peace of mind and happiness.
He will not only verbally say that he loves you, but also let you realize that his love is meticulous care, consistent companionship, and always hand in hand with you no matter rain or shine.
He is a thoughtful guardian who always pays attention to your needs in his daily life, feels your emotions with his heart, and goes out of his way to provide you with solid support and assistance.
At the same time, he will also respect your opinions and decisions and be consistent with you in his actions.
On the contrary, if a man's words and deeds are inconsistent and he only says but does not do, then his love for you may not be sincere.
A man who truly loves you deeply will respect your independence and your worth as much as he is in awe of a treasure.
He will not try to conquer you like a storm, but like a warm sun, illuminate your path and let you fly freely.
He will not only appreciate your present, but also encourage you to pursue your distant dreams, give you the wings of hope, and let you soar in the vast sky.
He, like a warm watchman, respects your every hard work, cherishes your friends, pays attention to your interests and hobbies, and uses his presence and encouragement to push you to grow in a better direction.
On the other hand, if a man lacks due respect for your independence and tries to restrain your freedom and growth, then his feelings for you may be mixed with other intentions.
Time, like an invisible referee, silently measures a person's deep feelings for you. It is an important yardstick to verify the authenticity of love, revealing the true and false in silence.
Only after the baptism of time can sincere love shine and become the most precious wealth in life.
A man who truly loves you will be willing to give you precious time and energy. He will accompany you through important moments, care about the details of your life, and do his best to meet your needs.
At the same time, he is your back, giving you meticulous support and warm comfort when you need it.
On the contrary, if a man is always using busyness as an excuse and is unwilling to give time to you and ignore your requests, then his feelings for you may not be sincere enough.
Like an ostrich who shirks his responsibilities, his busyness may only be a disguise for his lack of attention and indifference.
How can you expect such a man to treat you sincerely?
Remember that love is based on trust and understanding, and any judgment needs to be based on the actual situation and your own feelings.
If you have doubts about a man's love, you may wish to communicate openly with him and understand his true thoughts and feelings.
At the same time, pay attention to your own inner needs and feelings, and don't sacrifice your own happiness in order to cater to others.
In love, we need to maintain the awareness and courage of independence and autonomy, and not give up our dreams and goals easily.
At the same time, we must also learn to cherish and appreciate the dedication and love of others.
If a man truly loves you, he will respect your choices and support your development, while also providing you with the necessary help and support.
And if you feel dissatisfied and upset and need to seek professional psychological counseling or help, don't hesitate.
Love is not the whole of life, we need to learn to care for ourselves and cherish ourselves in order to better enjoy the sweetness and happiness of love.
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