The 37-year-old lazy woman refused to do housework, urinated in the room, and asked for 3.3 million, and her husband please get out
37-year-old Wang Chen and 39-year-old Liu Dahai are both remarried couples, the two were introduced by relatives and friends, and they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand after just three months. Now, they have been together for seven years, have a lovely son, and live a pretty good life. However, a recent accident has put the family in a difficult situation. It turned out that in an ordinary housework, Wang Chen asked her husband to help dry the quilt, but she didn't expect her husband to lose control of his emotions, threaten her with a knife, and finally kick her out of the house. In desperation, Wang Chen had to rent a house to live temporarily, and sought the help of **, hoping to get justice for himself.
The reporter met with Wang Chen and listened to her tell her about her experience. Wang Chen claimed that the scars on her body were caused by her husband. Originally, I just hoped that my husband would help dry the quilt, but I didn't expect it to cause my husband's extreme anger. He picked up a knife and threatened to harm her, but fortunately her parents-in-law came to her aid in time, otherwise she might have been seriously injured. Whether this is the case remains to be further verified.
Wang Chen said frankly that due to her husband's lack of height, if it was her first marriage, she would never be able to accept him. She also revealed that her husband's attitude towards her was rather unfriendly.
Accompanied by reporters, Wang Chen returned home. Liu Dahai was furious when he saw her, claiming that he had not actually hurt his wife, but only scared her with a knife. According to him, during the fierce quarrel between the two, his wife actually bit off a small part of his ear, which was an unbelievably cruel scene.
Wang Chen insisted that her husband had threatened to hurt her with a knife, and that she had to bite off his ear only in self-defense.
Liu Dahai claimed that his wife had struck him on the head with a stick, but fortunately his parents stopped him, otherwise he might have caused more serious injuries. He admitted that the use of the knife was inappropriate, emphasizing that he only wanted to scare his wife and did not really want to hurt her.
He explained that it was not because his wife refused to dry the quilt that he lost his temper, but because he felt unbearable for his wife's usual laziness. Even though the new house has just been purchased, he calls his wife to clean up, but she prefers to play games at home, leaving him alone to clean up the new house.
In addition, his wife never took care of the laundry, cooking or hygiene, all of which was done by his mother, who is in her 60s. The wife is addicted to bed all day long, equipped with two tablets and three mobile phones, and her life is to eat and play, and sleep when she plays. He felt helpless about such a wife.
The mother-in-law complained that her daughter-in-law was really lazy, obviously there was a washing machine at home, but she was too lazy to put her clothes in, and she refused to press a button. She simply threw her dirty clothes downstairs, so her mother-in-law had to put the clothes in the washing machine for her and dry them.
Wang Chen defended: "I didn't ask you to help me wash, you were willing." ”
The mother-in-law insisted: "Although you didn't tell me to wash it, as soon as I saw the dirty clothes, I felt that I had to help wash them." ”
Wang Chen responded aggrievedly: "I don't do laundry because I'm too busy and don't have time to press the button of the washing machine." When I'm not busy, I wash it myself. ”
Liu Dahai complained that she worked outside every day and handed over her salary to her wife every month, but she was too lazy to do housework and was not grateful, which was extremely infuriating.
Wang Chen retorted: "You never cared about me, nor did you understand my feelings. As a husband, you are not fulfilling even the most basic responsibilities. ”
Liu Dahai retorted angrily: "You don't work all day, who will bother to care about you?" ”
The mother-in-law calmly replied, "Have you ever cared about my son?" Did you wash him once? Ever made a meal? Have you really fulfilled your responsibilities as a wife? I raised my grandson alone, and you can't stop scolding. ”
Wang Chen insisted: "I cook and eat by myself, it's not that I'm lazy to eat." Moreover, I play games to make money, and I can earn one or two thousand yuan a month. The people of the Kefu family didn't know anything about me, and they couldn't understand and tolerate my choices at all. ”
Wang Chen revealed to reporters that she had experienced an unhappy marriage. During her pregnancy, her ex-husband used violence against her, causing her to return to her parents' home in anger. However, her ex-husband remained indifferent to her condition until 10 months after the birth of their daughter, and the two agreed to divorce. After remarrying, her husband went so far as to commit violence against her and lacked understanding of her work.
In order to take care of her daughter, she showed her steps to earn money by playing games**. She stressed that she was not lazy and had her own job, but her husband and parents-in-law lacked understanding of her choice. 
Feeling aggrieved, Wang Chen sought comfort from his mother. She said that she did not spend money outside, but made money and shopping through her own efforts, what's wrong with that?
She suspected that her in-laws deliberately found fault with her because they received 3.3 million yuan in demolition money, so as not to let her take charge of the finances, causing her husband to beat her.
The reporter interviewed Wang Chen's in-laws again to understand the situation. The father-in-law said that if Wang Chen could change himself and live a good life, they would consider forgiving her and re-accepting her.
Wang Chen retorted that her in-laws had never treated her as a family and did not discuss anything with her. The family's house was about to be demolished, but her mother-in-law didn't tell her until she saw the big word "demolition" written on the house with her own eyes. After the demolition money was distributed, the father-in-law kept the money in his hands and did not let her participate in the decision-making.
Wang Chen felt aggrieved and said: "I keep to myself, I don't play poker, I don't go out for entertainment, and I don't like shopping." Every day at home, fully capable of taking care of household chores. However, my parents-in-law did not let me be in charge of the house. ”
The mother-in-law argued that her daughter-in-law's biggest advantage was that she didn't play poker, but she played games through her mobile phone and tablet, which was better than playing poker.
The father-in-law claimed that his daughter-in-law asked for money, and he had already given his son 360,000 yuan to each of them for the levy of 160,000 yuan. In addition, he also helped his son buy and decorate houses, totaling more than 1 million yuan. However, the daughter-in-law also demanded the rest of the demolition money. He thinks that his daughter-in-law is insatiable and wants to take all the money for herself.
Wang Chen resolutely counterattacked: "Shouldn't I bring the cash of the house when I get married?" ”
The neighbors around her blamed Wang Chen for going too far, believing that she was not suitable to play the leading role in the family at all.
Wang Chen responded calmly: "How do you know if my shoes are comfortable?" ”
The mother-in-law immediately shot back: "Take off your shoes if they don't fit, no one forces you to wear something that is not suitable." ”
Liu Dahai returned home and told reporters about his marriage experience. He explained that the previous marriage was expropriated because of the family's land, and the ex-wife's request to take charge of the entire levy led to the separation of the parties, which his parents disagreed.
Later, someone introduced Wang Chen to him. Although he was reluctant to marry again at first, at the urging of his parents, he finally got together with Wang Chen.
After marriage, he found that his wife's laziness was unbearable. Even though the bathroom at home was downstairs, she didn't bother to go downstairs to use it, so she actually bought a bedpan in the room, causing a foul smell to fill the room. In addition, the wife's clothes were left haphazardly, and the sofa was piled with messy clothes, and she couldn't even find a place to sit. For Liu Dahai, who loves cleanliness, this is simply an unbearable situation. What makes him even more intolerable is that his wife is not even willing to do hygiene, let alone let her be in charge of housework.
Liu Dahai made it clear that if his wife could not change her lazy Xi, but still demanded the responsibility of a housewife, he would not want to continue to live with her.
Wang Chen's father said that Wang Chen is the third in the family and has two older sisters. She usually does not participate in household chores, has a willful personality, and does not follow the advice of others. In particular, the wife is obedient to her and fulfills all kinds of requests she makes, and this spoiling has led to her daughter's current personality.
The mother added that her daughter was indeed a bit lazy, and that she washed her clothes when she came home, and that she had not participated in household chores. Although the mother had asked her daughter to take on some household responsibilities, she was not willing. The mother told her daughter that she should be more diligent in her in-laws' house so as not to attract resentment from others.
To resolve the conflict, a mediator organized a mediation session with Ms. Wang, her husband and her in-laws. Wang Chen still felt that he was not recognized by his in-laws, and he was unwilling to be expropriated. Her husband listened to her mother-in-law's advice and did not respect her enough, and her mother-in-law never recognized her status. Whenever there is a conflict, the husband always sides with the mother-in-law.
The mediator told Wang Chen that she needed to change her lazy Xi. Her husband is working hard outside the home, and she should take care of the housework and make sure he has no worries. If she wants to control the collection at home, she must win the trust of her parents-in-law and show that she has the ability to manage the household.
In the end, Wang Chen said that she was willing to change herself, pay more attention to housework, wash clothes on time, and no longer litter. She also promised to pay more attention to her children's school Xi and life, and reduce the time spent using mobile phones.
Her husband, Liu Dahai, also said that he would make some changes, stop blaming his wife too much, increase communication with his wife, and promise not to use violence again.
In the end, the couple shook hands and made peace and resolved to work together to pursue a better family life.
Conclusion:
Without hard work, it is difficult to have a good harvest. Wang Chen longed for the respect of his mother-in-law's family and wanted to take on important responsibilities at home, but he fell into extreme laziness. As a result, it was difficult for her in-laws to trust her to hand over the collected money.
Wang Chen's laziness is inseparable from her mother's upbringing. When she was at her mother's house, her mother was reluctant to let her do housework, and she was obedient, causing her to be lazy and willful when she arrived at her mother-in-law's house. Therefore, parents must let their children participate in housework more when they are young, convey the glorious values of labor, and cultivate their children's love for labor.
I often hear some parents say, "I don't let my daughter learn to do housework, and when she gets married, she will work more at her mother-in-law's house." This notion is wrong. A girl who does not know how to do housework and does not love housework may find it difficult to be loved by others after marriage.
The end result is quite satisfying. I hope that Wang Chen can truly change herself, win the approval of her husband and in-laws, and also set a good example for her children.