After a woman is conquered by you, a signal may appear that the boundaries are allowed to be crossed
As the literary master Fyodor Dostoevsky once said:
Love is not a heart beating another heart, but a spark of two hearts colliding together. "
I am convinced by this view.
In a relationship, both parties need to work together to keep things together.
When you have a crush on her and pursue her, if she also has the same feelings for you, she will allow you to go into the depths of her heart, and the two hearts will resonate and start a beautiful relationship.
It's one thing to like each other, and the way of expression can be different. She may show her affection by acquiescing to your contact and make you understand what she really feels in her heart.
Feelings are often so delicate that if a person doesn't have a crush on you, she will make it clear that she will say no;And when she likes you, she acquiesces to your contact, sending a clear signal.
After successfully "conquering" a woman, she will give a clear signal: acquiesce to your contact.
01. When she communicates with you, allow you to naughtily cross some boundaries and make some humorous jokes.
In a relationship, through the interaction between the two parties, you can often get a glimpse of a person's true feelings about you.
If she has no interest in you and no feelings for you, she will not tolerate you making some jokes that are out of bounds.
When talking to you, she will clearly delineate the boundaries of language. No matter what you say, as long as it is some joke that is beyond her comfort zone, even if it is a well-intentioned teasing, she will decisively refuse it, and she may even feel disgusted.
But if she has a crush on you and is attracted to you, then in communication, she won't mind you making some jokes that cross the line. It may even cater to you positively and behave very happily.
No matter how excessive what you say, she will gladly accept it, respond to you, and be willing to interact with you without shying away from it.
When she tolerates your transgressive jokes in communication, she is actually sending a signal that she is already attracted to you.
02. In the process of spending time together, she allows you to give care and care.
When you are deeply in love with someone, you desire to be her support, providing her with meticulous care and attention.
You are no exception, once you are immersed in her affection, you will be very concerned about her life and especially attentive to her affairs.
When you know that she hasn't eaten yet, you invite her to eat with youKnowing that she is bored, you will arrange a movie tour;Seeing that she is working overtime, you will spontaneously go to pick her up and take her home.
And she doesn't refuse the slightest bit of care and care for you. This concern gradually forms a kind of dependence in the performance of time and time again, and her concern for you becomes deeper and deeper.
No matter what happens, she is always the first to think of you. By allowing you to care and take care of you, she is actually acquiescing that you have integrated into her life and become a part of her closeness.
By allowing you to care and pamper her time together, she is actually sending a signal that she is already attracted to you.
03. When meeting you, you are allowed to touch your body
Between the opposite sex, if it is just an ordinary friend relationship, there are often clear boundaries and appropriate proportions.
If she doesn't mean anything to you and just treats you as a regular friend, she will never tolerate any physical contact with her.
When you touch her, intentionally or unintentionally, she will instinctively feel repulsed, may get angry, and even end the friendship because of this, thinking that you are very impolite.
On the contrary, if she has developed a crush on you and is already attracted to you, then when meeting, she will allow you to have some physical contact with her and show some shyness.
She may take the initiative to approach you, allowing you to cross some boundaries and make physical contact, which is actually a clear expression of her feelings for you.
When she meets you, allowing you to make physical contact with her is actually sending a clear signal that she is attracted to you.
In a relationship, the behavior she allows you to cross the line is a form of acceptance, recognition, and acknowledgment.
When she likes you and is attracted to you, it will allow you to go beyond some boundaries and get closer to her.
She tolerates your transgressive banter when talking to you, allows your care and care when she is with you, and allows you to have physical contact when meeting.
If you already understand how she really feels about you, then cherish this relationship and don't miss out on this person who truly loves you.