"Many things are not insisted on when you see hope, but because of persistence will let you see hope, and your persistence will suddenly let you see its meaning one day in the future. "
This passage was seen in the book "You Must Walk, Walk to the Lights" by the writer Anne Kang, which is written about Anne's own story.
Her parents divorced when she was an infant and she grew up with her grandparents, who remarried when she was seven years old and started a new family, shattering her dream of being able to be taken to the city by her father to live together, and her elderly grandparents provided for her to go to college.
When she was small, she was regarded as a burden by her closest people, and the fear of disappointment and abandonment developed her inferiority, pleaser, sensitivity, and lack of security in her character, and her twisted temperament also caused her later depression.
Anne, who grew up like this, started writing in college, and after working, she bought her own house with her own writing income, and she also had the financial ability to repay her grandparents who raised her.
We can't choose our parents when we are born, what kind of family we are born in, and what kind of parents we meet cannot make our own decisions, but when we grow up, we can decide what kind of life we live on our own.
Anne relied on these words, not only herself, but also tens of millions of readers, not only with herself, but also with her parents, and now she has been compensated by her mother's love and gained her brother's affection.
Whether it is a man or a woman, only if we learn to love ourselves, let ourselves go, make ourselves strong, spiritually independent, and financially independent, can we get more love from others!
If you are now mired in the quagmire and feel sorry for yourself, then come and read this book "Keep Walking, Until the Lights Shine", I believe that you will walk more fearlessly, love well, and then complete yourself.