Husbands and wives who belong to the same phase are good or bad
Foreigners have their own horoscope beliefs, so they are also indispensable in their daily life, such as: Libra, Capricorn, Aquarius, etc.
Now, we, the young people, have developed a strong interest in "constellation culture". For example, the first topic of two people dating is which zodiac sign.
Of course, unlike the "constellation culture" of foreigners, our country is a very traditional nation, especially the elderly, who worship the "zodiac culture", or the zodiac. Especially when young people get married, the elders in the family should not only look at the "eight characters of birth", but also look at the genus of dragon, tiger, pig, rat, etc.
Therefore, the old people in the village believe that among the 12 zodiac signs, if the zodiac signs of two people can complement each other, it is a kind of luck. That's why there isThere is a common saying that 'husband and wife belong to the same phase, and life is big.'Different', what does this mean, and does it make any sense?I'll tell you:
What is the zodiac culture?How did the zodiac culture come about?
The zodiac, also known as the zodiac, is a method of keeping the year in traditional Chinese culture, with a cycle of 12 years, represented by an animal a year, and evolved from the 12 constellations.
For example, this year is the "Year of the Rabbit", water represents water, represents black, Mao represents the rabbit, this year is the year of the black rabbit, and the children of this year are the children of the rabbit.
There are a total of twelve types of zodiac signs, which are:: Rat, Ugly, Tiger, Rabbit, Chenlong, Snake, Horse, Sheep, Monkey, Rooster, Dog, Pig, each with its own meaning and symbolism.
Where did the zodiac come from?
The origin of the zodiac is said in the "Five Elements of the Book of Nanqi", named Shen Jiong:
Traces left by mice, flocks of sheep in dusk.
The tiger is in the valley, and the rabbit moon is near the window.
The dragon is far away and the grass is green, surrounded by snakes and willows.
Let the horses go to pick, and the sheep will start with spring planting.
Monkey chestnut shy fragrant fruit, with a chicken anvil to clear the cup.
Dogs have affection, pigs have leisure. ”
Therefore, the zodiac signs are obviously written in the order of the animals corresponding to the twelve earthly branches, and the twelve earthly branches are replaced by twelve animals, which is also derived from a certain worship psychology of animals by ancient people.
Of course, the origin of the zodiac also has twelve heavenly stems, and there are other sayings.
There is a sentence in the twelve earthly branches:
The ancients believed that the twelve heavenly stems corresponded to the twelve genera, and the Eastern Han Dynasty King Chong's "On Balance" has the following records:
"The child is not a rat, but a rabbit. ”
However, before the Han Dynasty, our country used the twelve heavenly stems, and the Xiongnu in the north still used the "animal chronology", until "Zhaojun out of the plug", the various ethnic groups mixed, and there was a "twelve genera" This statement, has been used to this day.
There are also foreigners who say:
Scholars represented by Guo Moruo advocate that the "12 zodiac signs" are "foreign objects" that originated from India. India naturally has 12 zodiac signs, but the "Tiger" was changed to "Lion" by the Indians, and the "Rooster" was changed to the Golden-winged Roc.
In East Asia, although Vietnam also has 12 zodiac signs, "rabbit" means "cat" in Vietnam, so this year is called "Year of the Cat" by the Vietnamese.
However, no matter how they changed, our ancestors would use the zodiac to describe their behavior.
"Husbands and wives belong to the same phase, and their lives are very different."
In fact, there is a saying that goes like this:
Since ancient times, the white horse is most afraid of the green ox.
When a snake meets a tiger, it's like being cut in half.
The dragon and the rabbit walked on the clouds, and the golden rooster looked at the dog with tears in his eyes.
The black mouse cow is the cultivation of the previous life, and the green tiger and the black pig are both high-class marriages.
The golden dragon and jade chicken match, the snake and the rabbit, are all wealthy people.
This means that the white horse represents the horse, the green one represents the cow family, the green one represents the golden rooster, and the representative of the chicken family...And all that.
Subjectively, the ancients believed that the zodiac horse and the zodiac ox "harmed each other", and the sheep and the rat also "harmed each other", so there was a proverb, called "the white horse is afraid of the green, and the sheep and the mouse see each other for a rest".
In addition to "harming each other", "clashing" and "punishing" are also essential.
According to the records in the Book of Changes, between the twelve earthly branches, there are punishments, rushes, combinations, injuries, meetings, and breaks. For example, Meridian Chong, Zi Xingmao, Haihai self-punishment, Chenchen self-punishment, ugly noon desire to hurt. And "mutual injury" is also "wearing", and the so-called "white horse is afraid of green since ancient times" also refers to "white horse wearing green".
So, is it good or bad for a couple who belong to the same couple?
The subjective judgment of the ancestors:
In the eyes of our ancestors, among the twelve earthly branches, there is only one thing called "mutual punishment", and that is suicide.
For example, there are four ways to commit suicide, one is:Long Long committed suicide, one was suicide at noon, one was Ma Ma suicide, and the other was suicide. This situation is consistent with the congenital relationship of husband and wife.
As for the "self-abuse", this old ancestor felt that it was because he had a pimple in his heart, so he sulked at home.
What the ancients called animal nature.
In the animal kingdom, there are animals that are alone, such as tigers, leopards, etc. Some animals live in groups, such as cows, sheep, rabbits, etc.
Of course, compared to the solitary animals, if other creatures intrude on their territory, they will fight for their own territory. Take the dragon and tiger in the zodiac as an example, as the so-called mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, there is naturally a conflict between the dragon and the tiger, and it is naturally impossible to get together.
However, some social animals are different, such as cattle and sheep, which can effectively prevent natural predators when they gather together, so the ancestors subjectively felt that the combination of cattle and sheep was also good.
Of course, this is just an opinion of the ancestors, and it doesn't mean anything, after all, the most important thing for a couple is not the zodiac, but the personality of two people, is it very compatible.
Conclusion: To sum up, about "husband and wife belong to the same phase, life changes greatly", in fact, this is a very contradictory theory, naturally it is not in line with scientific principles, of course, some husbands and wives will also have some defects, such as the lack of complementarity of personality, may fall into meaningless competition.
However, from a scientific point of view, if two people have similar personalities and have the same interests, then it can reduce conflicts between them, and at the same time, it can also make their marriage relationship more harmonious and the family atmosphere more harmonious.