01.In "Love's Study Trip", He Youjun shows his two sides, one is that once he starts the work mode, he becomes a domineering president in seconds.
Once, He Youjun acted like a meeting, aggressive, and had a feeling of blood suppression, and even Zhu Dan called it "terrible".
On the other hand, he is sometimes very middle two, "Luffy" possessed, and said that he wanted to be "One Piece".
He is a workaholic, and so is a childish child.
It's interesting that these two sides are unified into him, and the contrast is huge.
In fact, both sides are also related to his upbringing. From He Youjun's description, he had a tumor on his body when he was a child, underwent surgery, and half of his body was dissected, and everyone is not sure how long he can live.
At the same time, he experienced his father's serious illness during adolescence and was unable to do anything.
Therefore, he attaches great importance to both the body and time, because he understands what is going on in life, old age, sickness and death better than anyone else.
On the other hand, growing up in such a family, he also has a sense of family responsibility in his bones.
So, he always spends all his time doing things. I guess the last thing he wants is to end up with nothing.
And this experience as a child always made him feel very urgent, and he couldn't relax for a moment. He Youjun, who was burdened with such a mission, became a workaholic.
In one of the studies, Zhu Dan asked everyone to close their eyes and imagine a picture. Others describe romantic scenes between couples or happy scenes with children.
He Youjun's scene surprised everyone a little, his picture turned out to be a successful person present, similar to the scene of participating in his celebration party.
This shows that He Youjun's biggest wish at present is to be a successful person.
However, then, the style of painting changed abruptly, and he was possessed by Luffy again, accompanied by sound effects from "One Piece" and so on.
The previously described scenario was broken all at once. Listen to this scene coming out of an adult's mouth. Everyone was amused.
He Youjun has always tried to show the appearance of an adult, and always leaned on the image of a successful person. However, there is still a child living in his body.
This childishness has a lot to do with the fact that he didn't really be a child when he was young.
According to He Youjun's expression, his mother was a "tiger mother", who was very strict with him when he was a child, and gave him little pocket money. You have to get an A on the test to get something he wants.
Other children's childhood toys and games, he may enjoy very little.
He never seemed to be a child, and he was always under heavy pressure. So, the child was hidden in his body. As you grow up, you jump out from time to time when you feel safe.
For example, he wants to "wipe Xi Mengyao's eyes with sand";After he takes off his socks, he will be enthusiastic about throwing them into the shoebox again and againBecause his height is not dominant, he even calculated the average height of Chinese men to save his dignity;proposed to Xi Mengyao, on the one hand, he tried his best and was very ceremonial, and on the other hand, he played a super Mario in the marriage proposal, which was realized in the form of breaking through.
It has a sense of ritual and is very middle two.
At this time, how can there be any shadow of a domineering president, he is simply a child.
What is missing in one stage, people will find it back in another. People who lack love when they are young are easy to find older lovers, and those who lack childlike fun when they are young will treat themselves as children again when they grow up.
Therefore, not to mention the audience, even Xi Mengyao was surprised by the contrast of He Youjun.
Of course, the reason why he can do this shows that Xi Mengyao appreciates He Youjun, at least tolerates it. Therefore, He Youjun can be himself.
I think He Youjun is smart, he is looking for Xi Mengyao.
Xi Mengyao did not try to transform He Youjun, but was willing to accompany He Youjun to see the world together in his way.
When He Youjun turned on the "One Piece" mode, Xi Mengyao was almost playing with He Youjun, and what she expressed to He Youjun was understanding. When he showed a very childish side, she did not dislike it. This is He Youjun's childish confidence.
Of course, in addition to Xi Mengyao's understanding of He Youjun's childishness, she can also hold He Youjun, which is her wisdom.
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