In this fast-paced, high-stress society, each of us needs to learn self-discipline. But, you know what?In fact, there are levels of self-discipline, and the highest level of self-discipline is to keep your mouth in front of people and keep your heart after people. So, what exactly does this self-discipline mean?How do we do that?
First of all, let's understand what it means to keep your mouth in front of people and keep your heart behind people. To put it simply, in public, we must learn to control our mouths, not to make speeches easily, and not to easily offend people. In private, we should maintain inner peace and firmness, and not let external interference and ** shake our beliefs and goals.
This level of self-discipline sounds easy, but it's actually hard to do. Because each of us has emotions and desires, sometimes we make wrong decisions because of the impulse or **. However, if we can stick to this self-discipline, it will bring us a lot of benefits.
First of all, keeping one's mouth shut in front of people allows us to avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble. In public, if we don't pay attention to what we say, it is easy to arouse the disgust or misunderstanding of others. And once this kind of resentment or misunderstanding is formed, it is difficult to dispel it. Therefore, learning to keep our mouths shut can allow us to get along with others better and avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.
Secondly, guarding the heart after others can help us better maintain inner peace and firmness. In this fast-changing society, we are often faced with all kinds of ** and distractions. If we are not able to maintain our inner peace and firmness, it is easy to lose our way and lose the motivation to move forward. Therefore, learning to maintain inner peace and firmness in private can make us better able to cope with various challenges and changes.
So, how can we keep our mouths in front of people and keep our hearts behind people?In fact, it is very simple, as long as we can always remind ourselves, keep a clear head and firm beliefs, we can do it. Specifically, we can start from the following aspects:
First, learn to control your emotions. When we are upset or angry, don't lose your temper or make offensive remarks. Instead, you should calm down, think about whether your emotions are reasonable, and adjust them in time if they are not. This can help us control our emotions better.
Second, learn to maintain inner peace and firmness. In private, we can do more things to make us happy, such as listening, watching movies, exercising, etc. At the same time, we must also maintain a firm belief in our goals, and do not give up or change our goals easily. This can help us better maintain our inner peace and firmness.
Third, learn to communicate with others. Sometimes we can cause misunderstandings or dissatisfaction due to poor communication. Therefore, it is also very important to learn to communicate with people. When communicating with people, we should pay attention to details such as tone and wording, and at the same time, we must respect the opinions and opinions of the other party. This can help us get along better with others.
In short, self-discipline at the highest level - keeping one's mouth in front of one person and guarding one's heart after others is a very important quality. If we can do this, it will not only allow us to get along better with others, maintain peace of mind and firmness, and avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles;It can also make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful. So, from now on, let's work together to achieve this level of self-discipline!