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The first reason is due tolifePsychological estrangement caused by trivial matters. These small gaps are not easy to detect at first, and there is no obvious harm. However, if these estrangements are not resolved, they will gradually accumulate and become larger and larger in the hearts of children, eventually leading to unfilial behavior.
The second reason is that children have been spoiled since childhood, and they are still self-centered when they grow up, and they do not consider the feelings of others, let alone their parents. in theirSubconsciousParents should serve them selflessly.
The third reason is that parents do not fulfill their responsibilities of raising and educating their children because they lack companionship or often quarrel or even commit domestic violence when their children are growing up. This can lead to a child growing up with personality defects or hostility towards their parents. In such a family, children are more susceptible to bad influences and develop bad personalities andlifeXi, this is also the reason for the emergence of many "losers".
Now that we know the causes of unfilial piety, let's talk about how to make our children more filial. Here are three ways to do it:
This sentence may seem simple, but it has a profound meaning. I'd like to give you a real-life example. In the Temple of Heaven Park, there are two old men playing chess, and there are many onlookers next to them, among whom is a chess master. The game was intense, and an old man deliberately created a trap, but only the master saw through it. However, the other old man didn't realize it and still greedily went to eat the pieces in that trap. Seeing this, the master couldn't help but point out and tell him that it was a trap. However, the old man still chose to continue to eat the chess pieces and eventually lost the game.
Why would this old man behave in a seemingly incomprehensible manner?Actually, in everyone'sSubconsciousThere will be a rebellious mood, which can also be called stubbornness. The degree of rebellion varies at different ages. In the same way, if you want to make your children more filial, you must first control your mouth!Unless your children are genuinely coming to counsel, try not to talk as much as possible. Especially when people get older, they tend toUnconsciousTelling the same thing over and over again is the legendary "nagging". Regardless of whether what you say is right or wrong, they will only feel that the more you nag, the more they will turn aversion to you. How should parents care for their children?The answer is to do more and talk less. Help your children take care of the children, clean up, do household chores, etc. As long as your children's eyes are not blind, they can see your efforts, how can they not be filial to you?
It's important to understand what parents really mean. Parents are not only the ones who give birth to and educate their children, but also provide spiritual support for their children. Now, what can we do for our children when they are adults and no longer need our birth and education?The answer is to give them shelter from the elements. Give them a hug or a kiss, tell them that they will always be the best in the eyes of their parents, tell them that they are wronged outside and go home and tell their parents, and we will support them and be their backing forever. Such support will make them feel at ease and loved, and thus be more filial.
One might question the relationship between physical exercise and filial piety. But in fact, the two are closely linked. We may have heard the saying: ".There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time”。This is because once we suffer from a certain disease, especially an irreversible disease such as Alzheimer's, we will need to take care of our children. However, children also have their own busyness, they can also get sick, and they have their own problems and burdens. In this case, if parents can maintain their health through exercise, they can reduce the burden of caring for their children and make them more willing and willing to be filial. Therefore, parents should participate moreExerciseMaintaining a healthy body has a positive impact on the filial piety of children.
In short, in order to make their children more filial, parents need to do more and talk less, provide spiritual support, and maintain a healthy body. These methods are relatively simple and practical, and I hope they will be helpful to everyone. In the end, it takes long-term patience and hard work to cultivate filial piety in our children, but as long as we give enough love and care, I believe that our children will become more filial.