What should I do if I am snubbed by a man?In the two ** years, it is not always enthusiastic, and it is not always you and me. Sometimes he may be very enthusiastic about you, clinging to you, accompanying you, and inseparable from you for a moment, but sometimes he will suddenly show coldness and ignore you. When a woman encounters a man's neglect, she will be at a loss, she doesn't know what to do, and she will not be able to accept such a great change in her heart, because it was too sweet and the psychological gap is very big. Let's first briefly analyze why a man is suddenly snubbed, there are only several reasons, either life and work are stressful, or there is a new ambiguous object outside of you, or he doesn't want to continue with you. Let's not care what kind of reason he belongs to, and if you want to pull his heart back, it's not that you have to do something, because if you don't do it right at this time, it may make you farther and farther away. At this time, you should pay extra attention to what not to do!As long as you do the following "three nos", then he will come back to you. 
1. Don't quarrel with himThis is a mistake that many women tend to make when they are snubbed by men, which is to make noise with men. I can understand the feeling of wanting to quarrel with him and want to ask him for an explanation, because no one can stand the sudden snub of a man, and he can't stand this kind of great change. But this is a big taboo, because the snub is initiated by the man, and his behavior is telling you that he wants to ease the relationship between you, and wants to cool down. He wants to be quiet and think about your relationship. At this time, if you run to him to make noise, hang in front of him every day, and find a sense of existence with him, then he will definitely think that you are so annoying, and think that you are so unreasonable. The more noisy you are, the more annoying he gets, and the result is that the colder he is to you and the more he doesn't want to pay attention to you. This is the case with human relationships, the tighter you push, the more disgusted the persecuted person will be, and the more they want to run away from the relationship and run outside the relationship to catch their breath. 
2. Don't ask him why he was snubbedMany people want to know why men snub them, and they have to ask why. Let me tell you, no matter how much you ask, you can't ask him the real reason, and he will definitely find all kinds of reasons to prevaricate you and shut you up. He may say that he has been busy at work recently, he may say that he has encountered some troubles recently, he may say that he has encountered financial problems, in short, he may blame the reason for his neglect of you on other things, and he will be completely clean. If you can't get a specific reason, he will think that you are annoying, that you are endless, not sensible at all, and in the end he may blame you for all the faults, and then continue to snub you as a matter of course. Therefore, when you encounter a man's neglect, you don't want to ask him the reason, it's useless to ask, anyway, you can't ask the real reason. 
3. Don't be depressedMany people show a very depressed appearance after being snubbed by men. What is drinking late at night and getting drunk, not sleeping in the middle of the night and posting sad copywriting in the circle of friends, and even showing a tendency to self-harm, to put it bluntly, these behaviors are very pediatric. It doesn't matter if you're getting drunk late at night, or writing sentimental copywriting, or something else, it's nothing more than showing the other person, wanting to arouse his pity, wanting him to see your sadness, and then come back to comfort you. All these behaviors of yours will only push him farther and farther, maybe he snubbed you just because of the troubles at work, and he didn't pay so much attention to you, and as a result, your operation will make him think that there is something wrong with you. Normal men actually don't like women who want to die because of this, they don't like this kind of woman who makes herself very depressed for love, they like more positive women. So the more this is the case, the less you should show that you are depressed. 
The above three don'ts are the three things that women should never do after being snubbed by men, no matter which one of them should be done, because this will only ruin your favor with him. At this time, the most important thing you should do is to take your attention back to yourself, it is wrong for you to pay all your attention to him, the more this time, the less you should pay too much attention to him. So what should we focus on?You should pay attention to yourself, your own career, and your own life, and you should spend your mind on yourself, work hard to engage in your own career, and strive to make your life colorful. You have to work hard to make yourself better and better, not more and more depressed, more and more dim, you have to live as a beam of light, illuminate yourself, and make yourself a shining woman. Men are also Mu Qiang, they also like sparkling women, at this time he will see the shining points in you and will think you are excellent. And if you do the above three no's, find that you don't look for him, and then live your life so well, he will wonder if you are going to give up on him, and at this time he will have a sense of crisis and will come back to you. In this way, the initiative is in your hands, and it is completely up to you to decide whether to continue to develop with him. End article illustration Stills from "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel".