After stepping out of high school and entering a new university life, many classmates may feel particularly uncomfortable, in a strange situation, know nothing about their classmates, and cannot understand the personality and Xi of their roommates, and can only take peaceful coexistence as the primary criterion.
As the adaptation period passed, some students were able to quickly integrate into the group, while others felt lonely and slightly withdrawn. Whether in the dormitory or in the class, there seems to be an indescribable tension. University is a portrayal of reality, and if you are not careful, you will go your separate ways;The attitude towards polite people is also relatively kind, and for those who lack politeness, there is no need to deliberately show favor.
Some institutions with better conditions provide special self-Xi rooms for postgraduate entrance examinations for students, while institutions with more general conditions use the school library as the best place to Xi quiet study.
In the Xi room, due to the limited space, you can often witness the scene of students vying for a seat, as if each position is engraved with the owner's name, the graduate school entrance examination is not over, and the sitting students do not easily give up their seats.
For places such as Xi rooms and libraries, the most emphasis is on quiet and peaceful, coming and going, students maintaining restraint, and laughter and laughter should be left to the school playground. The attitude of academic concentration needs to be outwardly expressive, wear headphones, and work quietly, even if it is a faint sound, without attracting too much attention.
There are always some students who are exceptional, and they do not require the Xi room to be extremely quiet, preferably to the point that even a needle can be heard clearly on the ground.
In the Xi room for graduate school entrance examinations, a girl found that when her classmates used a tablet with a capacitive pen, her writing made a harsh "click" sound, which interfered with her Xi, so she left a polite note.
The note read: "The Xi room is relatively small, could you please put a pen cover on the pen?"The continuous clicking sound has some effect. The girl also intimately reminded that she had prepared a few pen covers and put them in the classroom, and the students who needed them could use them by themselves.
It may be speculated that the girl may be sensitive to sound, and any slight noise may make it difficult for her to concentrate. However, after leaving a note, the girl found that it caused unnecessary trouble.
When she returned to her seat again, she found that the classmate had also written a note for her, and the handwriting was elegant, as if it were a contrast between a calligrapher and an elementary school student compared to a girl.
Despite the beautiful handwriting, the content of the note was unceremonious, and the classmate bluntly mocked the girl's handwriting, suggested that she practice Xi writing, and reminded her that the cicadas chirp more harshly in summer, and if you want to immerse yourself in Xi, you can consider buying earplugs.
Obviously, this classmate didn't think there was anything wrong with the sound of his capacitive pen, but thought that the girl was too picky. She showed an attitude of "if you are calm, you will be naturally cool", accompanied by a hint of contempt, thinking that the girl did not learn Xi by heart.
Is the girl too squeamish or is the other classmates not considerate enough?In response to this situation, the girls asked for help online and received various opinions. Some people think that the girl's approach is right, and even very polite, not only a polite reminder, but also a solution, and that classmate seems a little too arrogant.
Some people also think that girls are too squeamish, obviously showing "jade syndrome", and everything is self-centered. If you can't even accept the sound of a pen touching a computer, it may be better to consider a different location for Xi, such as some paid Xi rooms, where the environment is quiet and the atmosphere of the Xi is better.
In my opinion, it is normal for college students to have conflicts with each other, they are all young people, they are enthusiastic, and they don't like to be pointed out by others, especially for problems that they are not aware of. There is nothing wrong with either side, it just needs to calm down in the hot weather and settle it calmly.
The graduate school Xi room requires quietness and strictness with yourself, but don't be too "glass-hearted". Students need to understand that university Xi rooms need to be quiet. When someone is loud and disturbs the quiet environment, students can observe if most of their classmates are disturbed. If so, you can find some classmates to communicate with that classmate.
If you just feel irritable, you don't need to be too sensitive, perhaps because you can't be at peace when you are studying Xi, and you are often distracted by trivial matters, making it difficult to concentrate. In this case, you can try to build your mind, and it may be better to relax and start Xi.
At the same time, since you are already preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, you should show your determination to study Xi, and you can no longer be as passive and lazy as before and be careless about preparing for the exam. To persevere, we can't fish for three days and dry nets for two days as before, and only by persevering can we get something.
Today's topic:What do you think of this girl's behavior?
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