"Do it when it's dark, and there is no disaster at home", what does it mean if you don't do it?Does the words of the ancestors make sense?
Chinese civilization has a long history, and rural proverbs are broad and ......profoundWe often hear a variety of sayings in our lives, and these sayings are varied.
For example, there are things about building a house, about weather, about solar terms, about life, and so on. And all kinds of sayings are the crystallization of the wisdom summarized by our ancestors through thousands of years of practical life, and they are slowly being passed down to the world.
Therefore, although the proverb seems to be relatively popular, there is a deep truth behind the popularity, which has practical guiding significance for our lives.
And today I have a saying about the taboo of life:"When it's dark, there is no disaster at homeSo what don't you do when it's dark?Let's take a look.
"Do it when it's dark, and there is no disaster at home":
Why don't you do something when it's dark?According to the ancestors, the day is yang and the night is yin, so yin and yang should be balanced.
Of course, in ancient times, the ancestors were".The sun rises, and the sun restsIn fact, this principle is in line with the laws of heaven and earth.
And "yang" represents movement:This means that after entering the daytime, people will move, and it also represents passion and enthusiasm. Therefore, during the day, we must also complete all the things that need to be done, so as to conform to the law of "Tao".
And "yin" represents stillness:"Quiet" means dormant, so according to the natural laws left by the ancestors, it is impossible to work at night.
This is especially true at the time of "midnight", because the ancestors believed, ".There are three treasures in the sky, the sun, moon and stars, the earth has the three treasures of water, fire and wind, and people have the three treasures of spirit and spirit." Therefore, if you go to work after dark and stay up late, it will inevitably have an impact on people's spirit.
Of course, in addition to "not staying up late" after dark, we have to ** other things, so what else can not be done after dark except not staying up late:
First, don't hit the child when it's dark.
We often find that whenever night comes, it often comes from a certain house in the community."Adults cry, children cryThe sound made the neighbors sleep restlessly.
In fact, this is some of the phenomena that some parents have caused adults to beat their children because their children's learning Xi is not good, or their children are disobedient. It's not good for this kind of kid hitting in the darkThis is because:
It will change the child's mind.
In fact, according to the analysis of some scientists, children's minds are very immature, especially some adolescent children, their minds are also in the stage of understanding and discovering the outside world, and they know little about some things.
If parents suddenly hit their children violently at this time, or often hit their children, then this will cause the child's "nervous system" to be disordered, and some extreme things are prone to occur.
, giving the child the illusion of violence.
Nowadays, children are under a lot of pressure Xi school, and they go to school during the day and face the pressure between their Xi, classmates, and teachers.
And in the evening, if there is violence from a parent, it will make the child feel that only violence can solve the problem. Over time, the child's mind will undergo some bad changes, which is naturally dangerous for parents, so you must not do anything to beat and scold your child when you go to bed at night.
Second, dark doesn't decide some big things.
Many people Xi used to doing things after dark, such as XiBuild a house at home, marry a daughter-in-law for your children, spend money on investmentsAnd so on some big things. In fact, the ancestors believed that it was better not to do some big things after dark, because:
There is a saying in the countryside that goes like this: ".I think about a thousand ways in the evening, and I have to sell tofu in the morning."
The meaning of this sentence is that when you can't sleep at night, your mind is very active, but after tomorrow morning, you suddenly feel that your thoughts are a little ridiculous, and it is more practical to sell your own tofu in the morning.
Why is there such a statement?
After the practice of scientists, it is actually "".Brain Science", instead of chicken soup. Because scientists believe that although the thinking at night is more active, it is easily affected by the emotions of the day, just like the computer, so the "brain science" is obviously not as good as the morning when it is affected.
And after a night's rest, the next morning, it's like a computer restarting, and while the body and brain are restored, it's much better to make decisions the next night than at night.
Of course, according to the wisdom and experience left by the ancestors, and no matter how much you think about it at night, it is better to think about it, but the next day it is still business as usual, so the fantasy at night cannot solve the actual problem.
Third, don't look in the mirror when it's dark.
Many people, especially women, like to dress up, and some women do the same at night, constantly brushing short ** and often looking in the mirror. But the ancestors thought that it was impossible to look in the mirror often after dark, because of;
The subjective statement of the ancestors:
The ancestors subjectively believed that mirrors were reflective things, so they were superstitious. Therefore, when they find some abnormal images at night, they think that they have found something bad, which will cause them to frighten themselves, and finally cause the appearance of illness because of the psychological effect.
Of course, this statement of the ancestors, according to the explanation of modern science, is naturally superstitious.
Let's explain it scientifically
The previous mirror was not the current glass mirror, but the "bronze mirror". Compared with glass mirrors, copper mirrors are naturally not very clear.
Moreover, the ancients had long hair because of the "skin of the body and the parents of the recipient". Therefore, when the ancients went to bed after dark and woke up in the middle of the night in a daze, they would have the illusion of a bad state of mind after seeing themselves in the mirror.
Therefore, since the ancestors have this kind of saying that they don't look in the mirror when it's dark, although our descendants don't believe it, we shouldn't do it.
Fourth, don't move when it's dark.
In ancient times, our ancestors liked to move after dark.
But this is also an act of helplessness。Because in ancient times, there was no perfect system now, and if you moved during the day, some wealth would be easily exposed, which would be targeted by some unscrupulous people, which was not good.
Of course, some folk old people still like to move at night according to the practice of the old life. However, with the continuous development of generations, your Xi of moving in the dark has also become "not moving in the dark", because:
During the day, there is plenty of yang energy to move.
According to some of the rural elders, it is better to move in the morning. Because the plan of the year lies in the spring, and the plan of the day lies in the morning, when you move in the morning, the yang energy will be stronger, which will bring auspicious joy to the family.
It is very cold at night, so it is not suitable for moving.
In fact, after dark, as the sun goes down, the yang energy at this time is also weak, and if you move at this time, the efficiency at night is very low, which is not conducive to the quality of life of the family.
Moving at night can also add to the cost.
Not only that, but moving after dark will not only cost you some extra money, but it will also cause accidents because the light is too dark, which is also not good.
Fifth, don't sigh when it's dark.
When it comes to "sighing", it is also unlucky for many people. For example, when someone sees someone "sighing", they also feel "unlucky", so they stay away. So why don't you sigh when it's dark:
The subjective statement of the ancestors:
Listening to the old people in the countryside, sighing is a bad thing, because the old people believe that the day is "yang" and the night is "yin". And some sick old people leave when they sigh for the last time, which is what it means to sigh.
However, these are all statements of the older generation, and there is actually no scientific basis, so we cannot believe it.
Let's explain it scientifically
However, according to the scientific explanation, in fact, "sighing" is a way to relieve stress, and the appropriate pressure is different for everyone. This includes sighing, dropping things, tantrums, and so on, so proper sighing is also good for people's health.
But "sighing" will also have some Xi habits, if a person has been under pressure in recent months, or in recent times, under his sighing and sighing, so that "sighing" will have a Xi habit.
So even if he doesn't have a lot of pressure, there will still be some sighing sounds in the market, so it's not good to sigh so often, especially when it's dark.
Write at the end:
Through the above, as the saying goes, "do it when it's dark, there is no misfortune at home", according to the older generation, naturally there is not much truth, but according to the scientific explanation, there are still some sayings, after all, we still believe in scientific truth.