Chunxue is a girl who marries far away, has not been back for several Spring Festivals, this year we are going back to my mother's house for the New Year, and when we go back, we specially prepared a valuable gift to talk about the filial piety of our daughter.
Unexpectedly, this gift was taken away by my sister-in-law in front of Chunxue, and my mother-in-law didn't dare to say anything when she looked at it.
Chunxue, in her early thirties, went out to work after graduating from high school, and met Chinese during her part-time job. Huawen is an honest and reliable boy, he takes special care of Chunxue, and the girl who goes out has a handsome guy to serve, and he is secretly happy in his heart. Zui will eventually hold hands and succeed for a lifetime.
Chunxue's family is in a small county town, two brothers and sisters, the elder brother is six years older than Chunxue, has married a wife and started a family, Chunxue's sister-in-law is tricky and mean, and she is domineering. The relationship with her mother-in-law and Chunxue is not good, and she always talks at home, and every word is prickly, which makes people unhappy.
After the sister-in-law learned that Chunxue was in love, she asked Chunxue about the family situation of Huawen, Chunxue knew that her sister-in-law was a person, and she didn't want to reveal it, so her sister-in-law listened to it side-by-side, and the hard work paid off.
Therefore, my sister-in-law can't look down on Chinese, and always says cool things in Chunxue's ear, wanting Chunxue to give up this relationship.
One morning, my sister-in-law inadvertently walked into Chunxue's room and persuaded Chunxue to say"Sister, we are a family, a family does not speak two words, some words you may not be happy to hear, but as a sister-in-law, I also have to say, it must be a lifetime thing. Chinese is rural, and there is no house in the city, where do you live after you get married, do you also go to the countryside?Even if you live in the countryside, you can do it, but what about the children, what should the children do when they go to school, the Chinese family will definitely not be able to afford a house, and if you can buy it early, you will suffer from this condition."
Chunxue listened to her sister-in-law's words, and her heart was mixed. My sister-in-law's words are not unreasonable, but I love Huawen very much and don't want to break up, Chunxue also believes that Huawen is a responsible man, and after getting married, the two will work together, and their lives will definitely change.
Thinking of some places, Chunxue said, "Sister-in-law, I know that the conditions of the Chinese family are not good, but this is my own choice, and I am willing to face and struggle with him, but thank you for your sister-in-law's concern." Not to mention that the IQ of a woman in love is zero, and she will not retreat even if she knows the suffering.
Seeing that Chunxue was so resolute, the sister-in-law sneered, shook her head, and walked away.
It was the first time that my sister-in-law walked into this house and touched a nail, because of her strong personality and belligerence, she has never said anything at home.
Chunxue's parents didn't dare to provoke this strong woman, and they obeyed her words. Chunxue's brother didn't want to offend this living bodhisattva.
Ever since my sister-in-law ate a nail at Chunxue's place, she has been picking her nose and eyes at Chunxue, and it is not pleasing to the eye anywhere. Marriage is even more important.
Originally, Chunxue's parents planned to take some qian by themselves, and then add the tens of thousands of yuan saved by Chunxue's part-time job to prepare a dowry of 100,000 yuan, but the sister-in-law disagreed, and after the operation of the sister-in-law, Chunxue's dowry was reduced by half to 50,000.
Huawen was afraid that Chunxue would be sad, so he persuaded her, "The dowry is to accompany her, we want as much as we give, besides, we can't get rich with more tens of thousands." Don't worry about your sister-in-law. ”
My parents also persuaded Chunxue, I suffered a loss, and everyone was still saying for my sister-in-law, I was really speechless.
Due to the various conflicts between Chunxue and her sister-in-law, Chunxue easily did not return to her parents' house.
After marrying into a Chinese family, Chinese parents treated Chunxue meticulously, just like a daughter, making Chunxue feel that marrying Huawen was her wise choice.
Time flies, and five or six years have passed since Chunxue and Huawen got married. After getting married, Chunxue rarely returned to her parents' home, and sometimes she didn't return for the New Year.
During the Chinese New Year this year, Huawen's mother said to Chunxue, "You haven't been back for two or three years, so go to your mother's place for the New Year this year, and accompany her old man." ”
Chunxue didn't agree, but she couldn't stand Huawen and her mother-in-law taking turns doing work, so she put it on the schedule.
When I was preparing here, Chunxue's mother also hit **, wanting Chunxue to go home for a reunion year, and take a family photo by the way.
So, Hua accompanied Chunxue to start shopping for gifts to go home. Tobacco and alcohol are essential, and I bought some tea and gift boxes. I also bought some health products for Chunxue's parents. Packed a trunk. It cost three or four thousand to buy gifts.
Due to the need to travel a long distance, Chunxue and Hua Wen got up early in the morning and went on the road. It was already afternoon when I returned to my parents' home. The car stopped at the door and carried the gifts home.
When my sister-in-law saw the big bags being carried home, she greeted them with a smile, and her face was full of wrinkles with a smile. He politely said, "Come on, why do you bring so many things, you can't do this in the future," he said, and his eyes never left the gift.
Chunxue just smiled at her sister-in-law and said, "I don't come back much, so I have to bring some to my parents."
It's Chinese New Year's Eve soon, Chunxue and her mother got up early in the morning, had some breakfast, and got busy in the kitchen, and her sister-in-law was eating melon seeds in the living room and watching TV. There was no intention of helping at all.
Brother Chunxue couldn't look at it anymore, so he said to his wife, "You also go to help, Chunxue is a relative now."
Chunxue's sister-in-law said disapprenously"Now that Xiaoxue is back, let her show off her cooking skills. "
Chunxue was very annoyed when she heard this, but she could only endure it during the New Year.
Our rule here is that the married girl can't be at her parents' house on the first day of junior high school, so Chunxue went back to the hotel after dinner.
In the second year of junior high school, Chunxue gave her nephew a red envelope of 600 yuan after arriving home, and as soon as Chunxue handed it to her nephew, she was snatched away by her sister-in-law, rubbed it in her hand, and her face became a little unhappy. Chunxue was very embarrassed when she saw this scene.
On the third day of the Lunar New Year, it was the day when my brother accompanied his sister-in-law back to his parents' house, but what Chunxue didn't expect was that her sister-in-law took away all the gifts he brought in front of him.
The sister-in-law said to his mother-in-law, "Mom, I used these gifts first, or we have to buy them too."
Although Chunxue's mother was unwilling, she didn't dare to stop it, so she could only watch her daughter's filial piety be sent to her mother's house.
Chunxue was even more annoyed in her heart, so she didn't have a seizure in order not to be embarrassed by her parents.
In the evening, Chunxue still felt uncomfortable, and told the daytime in her Chinese ear.
Hua Wen explained:"If your parents don't say it, you can't say it, we gave it to your parents, and the right to dispose of it is your parents, so you don't have to think about it. "
Chunxue thought to herself, she won't buy anything when she comes back, she secretly gives her parents some qian, and she can spend it as much as she wants, and her sister-in-law won't worry about it.
In fact, it is not uncommon for relatives to take their parents' things during the Spring Festival, but it is indeed a bit excessive to take them all without the consent of their parents.
Netizens, do you have such people around you?