I don't know if you have such an experience, no matter how hard we try to do things well, there will always be someone behind your back to stumble you, maybe he is jealous of you, or it may be that you have violated his interests, in short, he just wants you to mess things up, even if it is not beneficial to him, even if he just wants to watch the fun, he is very happy.
Recently, my friends and I have been plagued by all kinds of troubles, both at work and in life, in short, everything is not going well. So, we took advantage of the weekend to go to a nearby Tianhou Temple to offer incense, which is a temple dedicated to Mazu, which is said to be very effective. This temple is on a small island in the sea, called Lao Ya Zhou Dun. According to local fishermen, the island is very magical, they learned from their parents that there is a peculiar phenomenon on the island since they were young: when the sea is high when it is hit by strong typhoons and storm tides, the island will float with the sea and has never been submerged by the sea, so the island is called "floating island" locally.
When the incense was offered, my friend said something that made me cry and laugh. He said: Mazu Niangniang, we don't seek to be rich and rich, we don't want to be promoted and rich, we just ask those outrageous people not to stab us in the back. Hearing this, the two of us looked at each other for a while, and we couldn't help but laugh, and the other believers looked at us in confusion. Indeed, sometimes we feel that it is too hard. We have similar values, we don't like hypocrisy, we don't like flattery, we just want to get things done, but we find that even then, it's very difficult. There will always be people who don't know how to come out of the ** and create some difficulties for you, I often tell him, what else can we do, we can only regard it as a test of God for us. "People are very simple, things are also very simple, but personnel is not simple", and even more, some people don't even do personnel. Because we all have similar experiences and have the same ideals and beliefs, we urinated on a pot and reported to the group to keep warm.
When I graduated from high school, I worked as a waiter at a restaurant for financial reasons, trying to relieve the stress of college. During my part-time job, I had such a colleague, no matter how I tried to get along with him, how I spoke to him softly, and explained the reason clearly, he still made it difficult for me everywhere and stumbled me everywhere. And I didn't offend him, and I couldn't understand it. Later, I found out that it was purely because I had the opposite values to him, that he just didn't like people like us, even if he was replaced by other people who had the same three views. That's when I realized that there are some people, they can be really bad, that's all.
My friends and I have always held the attitude of life to do good deeds and not ask about the future. If we waver, what difference is there between us and them?We always joke that "the dragon slayer boy will eventually become a dragon", but the good thing is that we can still stick to our principles. The pain imposed on us by others, we should not pass it on to others, this is a distorted psychology, but we should try to start the transformation from ourselves, and see how many people this glimmer of light can illuminate. I like Sima Qian's sentence in "Historical Records: The Family of Confucius": "Although I can't get there, I yearn for it."
When Confucius and ** traveled around the world, they were trapped by Chen Cai and ran out of food, Zilu asked: "Gentlemen are also poor?"Zi said: "The gentleman is poor, and the villain is poor." "Villains can really do anything, sometimes they really don't have any way to do it, it's really too much to toss, I just want to say one thing: "There are always people who want to harm me", isn't it good to be a good man?Blind tossing and turning. However, fortunately, we are all relatively optimistic people, and it is difficult to pass the hurdles, and it is difficult to walk step by step. A sentence first bitter and then sweet, we have really survived year after year.
When Lu Shiyu taught the prince in the TV series "Crane Pavilion", there was such a line. "When a gentleman walks, he must not only beware of the harm of the villain, but also beware of the harm he himself himself when he fights against the villain. "I hope that on the way forward, we can remember the teachings of our parents and teachers when we were children, grow up well, be a good person, and be a kind person.