Article first published challenge Wen Yichen.
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In the trivialities of life, we are often driven by various desires, and the desires in love are even more complex and subtle.
Some people say that the relationship in bed is the touchstone of love, but true love, in addition to having a relationship, also needs to have the interweaving of three desires.
The first desire: the desire to get to know you.
A man who truly loves you will be eager to know everything about you. He cares not only about your appearance, but also about your inner world.
He will listen to your thoughts, understand your feelings, and respect your choices.
He will want to know your past, participate in your present, and plan your future. This desire to know you is the most sincere expression of love.
The second desire: the desire to take care of you.
Men in love often become attentive and considerate. He will care about your diet and your physical health.
He will prepare breakfast for you, do your laundry, and wipe your sweat for you. He will be there for you when you need it and provide you with a warm embrace.
This desire to take care of you is the warmest manifestation of love.
The third desire: the desire to spend a lifetime with you.
True love is not only a short-term passion and romance, but also a long-term commitment and companionship.
A man who truly loves you will be eager to spend his life with you. He will think about your future, plan your family, and work for your well-being.
He will be willing to give everything for you, including time and energy. This desire to spend a lifetime with you is the strongest determination in love.
In a relationship in bed, men with these three desires will cherish every moment with you even more.
They will feel your body and mind with their hearts, and warm every corner of you with love. They will share their joys and pains with you, and go through the ups and downs of life together.
Such a man is the man who truly loves you.
However, we also need to understand that desires in love are not set in stone. It changes over time and fluctuates due to various factors.
Therefore, we cannot rely solely on desire to tell if a person truly loves you. Love requires the dedication and understanding of both parties, and it needs to be operated and maintained together.
In love, we should keep a clear head and an independent personality.
We should learn to appreciate and cherish each other's advantages and contributions, and at the same time, we should also learn to face and solve each other's contradictions and problems.
Only in this way can we truly love and be loved, and can love exist for a long time and beautifully.
In closing, I would like to say that lust in love is not the only measure. We should pay more attention to each other's emotional communication and spiritual communication.
Only on the basis of true compatibility and mutual understanding in these aspects can we establish a truly healthy, stable and long-lasting love relationship.
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