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The relationship between men and women must contain desire, as sociologist Shen Yifei expressed in the book "What kind of love is worth being brave once":
You separate sex from love, and there are no boundaries between love and other intimate relationships.
Therefore, Professor Shen Yifei believes that love can sublimate desire;Love also inevitably evokes biological instincts.
However, in addition to these physical desires, there should be the following three "desires" between couples.
It's not just thinking about the lower body, but it's the result of love from the heart.
This is especially true for women.
There are two sayings circulating on the Internet: sharing desire is the highest level of romance;Losing the desire to share is the beginning of the end.
Both men and women will want to continue to take the initiative to chat with each other when they start to fall in love.
From the process of "self-disclosure" and "self-disclosure", the relationship slowly advances.
Even after being together for a long time, a good partner still talks about everything, talking before going to bed;In a bad relationship, such as "widowhood", two people often have nothing to say and it is easy to start a war of words.
So, judge how much a woman loves you, see how willing she is to talk to you, see if she provides enough private information, and even share her innermost secrets with you directly.
Women who refuse to communicate, women who do not want to speak out, are mostly not interested in men.
At work, many women talk about marriage and love, and they think that it is an act for women to spend their money on men.
But in fact, most of such women only love themselves, do not treat the opposite sex, and do not believe in love.
Psychologist Ashley Fromm writes in The Art of Love:
The essence of love is to create and nurture, and love and labor are inseparable. People love the fruits of their labor;People work for what they love.
In fact, love is like a growing flower, you don't appreciate the flowers, and you don't take care of any actions, how to prove the authenticity of love?
Therefore, in the course of the relationship, women will only approach men for money, that is, they use men as "tools";
But after a woman pays her salary, she wants to buy something for a man for the first time, and that is the expression of true love.
In fact, women in today's society are completely different from those of the past, which reflects their opposite view of love.
The former seeks a better version of themselves, while the latter likes to make sacrifices for the sake of their families.
So, in this age where everyone is self-centered, if a man meets a woman who is willing to change and sacrifice for you, you should know how hard it is.
For example, a woman originally liked to eat spicy food, but because you don't like to eat, in order to satisfy your life Xi, she also began to taboo;Women used to like to wear brightly colored clothes, but because you don't like it, she doesn't wear short skirts and hot pants anymore.
If a woman is touched, she will give up her career and choose to be a strong backing for a man and help a man take care of his family.
But the woman who makes the sacrifice will not talk about these rewards, nor will it be a bargaining chip for the moral kidnapping of men. It's full of joy and I feel that I can do something for my loved ones, and I am really happy!