In life, parents often complain that their children don't greet people when they see them, which makes them very embarrassed.
What should I do if this happens?
As a mother of the same child, give everyone a few tricks to do the following, and the child is naturally open-minded.
When others ask the child and the child does not respond to others, at this time, parents must not force the child to respond to others, but try to let the child open his heart and squat down to ask the child the reason.
In this way, from the words of the child, the child's true thoughts are that he wants to play with the child, but he does not dare to play with his classmates; Or is it that the child himself does not like to play with such children?
Parents can also help their children solve misunderstandings through such questions and answers, for example, if she says that she doesn't like this child, parents can take the opportunity to explain it, unravel the child's psychological knots, or teach the child to tolerate the shortcomings of others, etc.
A good family atmosphere can give birth to healthy seeds.
Therefore, when parents are free, they can play more games with their children, encourage them more, and enliven the atmosphere more, so that their children can gradually open their hearts and build self-confidence in this loving atmosphere.
Take my daughter as an example, my dad and I are often noisy and laughing, my baby is just over two years old, although she doesn't understand what we are talking about and laughing so happily, but when we laugh, my child is also very happy, will jump on the ground, and will involuntarily follow us silly.
The sense of ritual in the family will create a sense of identity, security and belonging between family members, and the same is true for children.
Then, if you want your child to have a good character, parents may wish to give their children more sense of ritual.
For example, on Friday, cook a delicious meal at home, prepare a small gift for the child, and when the child is on the table, parents can give it to the child: tomorrow is the weekend, I wish the baby a happy weekend, and I wish my parents a happy weekend.
On the child's birthday, invite a few friends who are familiar with the child to go to the restaurant or come to the house as a guest, help the child prepare special dresses, decorate the birthday wall, and give the child his favorite gifts. When the family celebrates their birthday, parents can prepare gifts for the family with their children and plan a surprise for them, so that the children can have a sense of family involvement.
Every once in a while, the family goes out for a small gathering, eats a hot pot, visits a shopping mall, plays a water park, or goes camping, etc., so that children can feel the joy of the outdoors.
In a family with a sense of ritual, the child will have a happier life and a more cheerful personality.
If the child does not have any friends of his own, then parents can help the child to provide opportunities, such as holding more family gatherings and family bonding activities.
When I say family gatherings, I mean that the other party is also a family with children, and the children are the same age as the subject's children, or they can be one or two years older.
In a happy party, the child will also be driven by the atmosphere and willing to play with other children, the more such a party, the more children the child knows, the personality will naturally become cheerful.
My children especially like to party, every time we get together, the children are like crazy, the big and small play until midnight and do not sleep, and the relationship between the children is also very close.
I believe that many people have had the experience of being "forced" by their parents to greet others or perform in public when they were young, which is the "nightmare" of most people's childhood.
But what makes people feel sad is that many parents who have been "drenched in the rain", after becoming parents, have become the same people as their parents, always like to talk about their children in front of relatives and friends, and even let their children improvise, even if the children are unwilling, they have to force their children for the so-called face.
In fact, everyone's personality is naturally different, some people are willing to express, some people are ashamed to express, we, as parents, can guide children to become cheerful and open-minded, but there is no need to force children to become people who everyone likes.
The reason why people are called people is because we are high-level creatures with opinions and thoughts, not monetary goods, so it is best not to be liked by everyone, and to be brave and ourselves.
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