Do you remember the song "The Night of the Military Port" 43 years ago?
Does anyone still remember Su Xiaoming?
Her songs swept the country and became a popular choice in the north and south of the country, making her one of the most popular female singers in the music industry overnight, when she was only 23 years old.
This stage is undoubtedly the best time and the peak of her career, but the song seems to cut off her entire career and make everything seem to stand still.
Except for this song, it seems that there is no trace of her anymore, as if Su Xiaoming has never appeared, as if everything she left behind has disappeared without a trace.
When we look closely, we will find that Su Xiaoming has left China, and even renounced his Chinese nationality and became French. However, do you remember?
At one time, Su Xiaoming was a soldier in China at that time.
That song became popular overnight, and at first everyone thought that Su Xiaoming would use this craze to continue to expand her career, but she didn't expect that she would choose to go abroad at the peak of her career, and even divorce her husband.
Therefore, until now, her first husband is still in deep pain.
What's even more unexpected is that although Su Xiaoming initially debuted as a singer, after living in France for nearly ten years, he began to re-engage in ** career, and even transformed into an actor in China.
It is worth mentioning that Su Xiaoming married a Frenchman shortly after arriving in France and had children.
Su Xiaoming's return to China after living in France for more than a decade has sparked dissent from many people.
Some call her a goddess and think it is a good thing for her to return home;Some people also think that she is a typical "eat food in the front, scold the mother in the back", thinking that she is no longer Chinese, but she has come back to earn Chinese money and contribute GDP to France.
What did Su Xiaoming experience back then?
Why did she go to France so persistently?
Now, what is the relationship between Su Xiaoming and her ex-husband?
Chen Xiaowei is Su Xiaoming's ex-husband, as we all know, in that era, most people did not marry later and have children later than they do now, and basically got married and had children at a very early age.
Chen Xiaowei has a typical Beijinger personality, honest and honest, always doing things silently;In contrast, Su Xiaoming is more humorous and a girl with a big grin.
It can be said that these two people are very complementary to each other.
At that time, Su Xiaoming had not heard the song "Night of the Military Port", and he was not very famous, so they entered the palace of marriage soon after they confirmed their relationship.
Although the living conditions at that time were not very good, due to the deep relationship between the two, they never cared about these external circumstances.
Su Xiaoming doesn't like to go to the kitchen, so as long as Chen Xiaowei is at home, he will be responsible for the three meals at home.
In addition, Chen Xiaowei has a stable personality and does not like to socialize very much, so he is reluctant to go out with Su Xiaoming many times.
When Su Xiaoming's mother was sick, Chen Xiaowei had always been with him, but since Su Xiaoming's fire broke out, everything has changed.
The common topics between the two seem to be getting less and less, and the distance between them is getting farther and farther away, especially after Su Xiaoming's explosion, **'s attention to him has increased, which has exacerbated the tension between them.
It is not known when this began to happen.
Many ** have been criticizing Chen Xiaowei for not being worthy of Su Xiaoming, causing the relationship between the two to drift apart.
Sometimes Su Xiaoming went out to perform, and even did not return for several days in a row, which made the already tense relationship even more strained.
Frankly, in a relationship, there is nothing that does not give.
Maybe Chen Xiaowei didn't make a lot of money, but he definitely gave a lot in terms of family. However, under the attack of **, the relationship between Su Xiaoming and Chen Xiaowei gradually faded.
However, the real reason for the breakdown of their marriage was that Su Xiaoming chose to go abroad and did not care about anyone's advice.
At that time, Su Xiaoming proposed to go abroad with her husband for further study, but Chen Xiaowei was reluctant to leave China. The two stood their ground, which led to the breakdown of their five-year marriage.
Su Xiaoming resolutely left China for France, while Chen Xiaowei struggled in pain.
Su Xiaoming wanted to go to France probably because he felt that he had relatives and sisters over there and could take care of each other.
We really need to think about whether this is necessary, though.
The song and dance troupe tried their best to keep Su Xiaoming at that time, but he insisted on his opinion and finally took off his military uniform.
Was the journey in France really smooth sailing?
When Su Xiaoming first arrived in France, he was unfamiliar with the language and all aspects of life.
Although she took refuge in her sister, her sister could not support her all the time. Despite the fact that life is good at home, abroad, everything has to start from scratch.
Su Xiaoming started to learn business while learning the language, but due to his lack of experience, the business soon lost money.
After that, he devoted himself to learning.
This sentence can be rephrased as: It may be said that this is a situation where God is constantly providing food.
At the beginning, Su Xiaoming was actually reluctant to remarry, or deep down he hoped to return to China after completing his studies.
However, her expectations do not match reality, as she meets a new destiny.
Like other celebrity amateur couples, Eric is a financial genius, and his greatest joy is cooking.
Eric quickly launched a fierce pursuit of Su Xiaoming, after all, no woman would resist romance.
Soon they established a relationship and met each other's parents.
In order to get along better with Eric, Su Xiaoming was willing to give up his Chinese nationality and directly naturalized in France, and since then he has been married to Eric.
Soon after, Su Xiaoming became pregnant with a mixed-race daughter.
Although Su Xiaoming is in France, she has long been committed to promoting Chinese culture, which makes people think about her feelings for her motherland.
We might as well avoid answering directly whether we think she is patriotic or not, because this question is not so easy to answer.
After a decade-long period, she chose to return to China again.
Maybe you can find some clues from Su Xiaoming's original family.
When it comes to Su Xiaoming's background, unlike many people who have entered the entertainment industry, although his family was poor at the time, Su Xiaoming's family conditions are definitely superior, because his parents are leaders in their respective fields.
Su Xiaoming's father is not only that, but also has great achievements.
Father and mother met in the army, and they married and had four daughters.
Curiously, however, although they had four daughters, none of them were Chinese.
Perhaps this situation can be described in terms of the social environment at the time, when Su Xiaoming's parents suffered injustice.
Due to the influence of the social environment, the children are decentralized, which seriously affects their schooling.
Su Xiaoming had a soft spot for ** at that time, perhaps because of the inheritance of his family's artistic talent, he had extraordinary talent both for playing musical instruments and singing.
However, despite his extraordinary talent, Su Xiaoming was not valued by the school and the song and dance troupe due to family reasons.
It wasn't until he was 19 years old that Su Xiaoming was able to join the art troupe because his parents were rehabilitated.
Despite being a little older, Su Xiaoming didn't care, but devoted himself to learning all kinds of singing knowledge, which fully demonstrated his hard-working quality.
Until later, Su Xiaoming rarely showed himself, until he began to gradually dabble in various pop songs and look for new development opportunities.
Not only did she combine military songs with pop **, but she also added some soft colors to her tough tone, which was finally realized when she was 23 years old.
At the "Rising Star ** Meeting", Su Xiaoming signed up after being recommended by the leader. It was on that occasion that a new song was about to be born, and in order to highlight Su Xiaoming's voice and characteristics, "Night in the Military Port" came out.
No one had ever tried this song before Su Xiaoming sang it, and even Su Xiaoming had never tried to audition.
However, on the night of that singing, Su Xiaoming sang this song for the first time, but it turned out to be popular all over the country overnight, and it had a profound impact on generations of people.
The song was really popular at the time, but understand that the situation was different then than it is now, when we were still limited by the circumstances of the time, and it was a sensitive time, so you have to be careful in whatever you do.
Although this song was all the rage, it caused widespread questioning, and was even accused of "Su Xiaoming disrespecting military songs".
Although the network is developed today, the influence of the first time at that time should not be underestimated.
Otherwise, there would not have been a rumor that "a person can drown a person with a mouthful of spit", and it was not until General Ye Fei came forward that he was able to stop it in time.
Therefore, Su Xiaoming ushered in his own popular ** era.
Despite rising to prominence at a young age, he eventually decided to start a new life abroad.
In the past ten years, Su Xiaoming has lived in France, and the times have changed dramatically.
Today's song styles are more diverse, and Su Xiaoming has gradually become a product of a bygone era.
Perhaps once upon a time, Su Xiaoming was a well-known figure. However, after returning to China, she is at a loss for the future.
Fortunately, she maintained her previous connections, and because of this, Su Xiaoming decided to embark on the road of acting, and even participated in some variety shows.
Some people may wonder if Su Xiaoming is unable to adapt to life in France now that he has returned to China. In fact, the opposite is true.
Su Xiaoming's sisters are used to living abroad, however, as their parents get older, they need more children to take care of. Coupled with the reason for her husband's job transfer, this caused Su Xiaoming's family to choose to return to China.
Although Su Xiaoming began to try to become an actor, due to his age and lack of professional training, he could usually only play some supporting roles.
In fact, many people still have doubts about Su Xiaoming becoming an actor, but she made these people have to shut up through practical actions, and what is shocking is that she has not received professional training.
I heard that after her ex-husband Chen Xiaowei knew that Su Xiaoming was married and had children, he also decided to leave China, go to the United States and find a new partner, and the two also got married and had children. Su Xiaoming