Wen Kuangyan.
Do you like good times or bad times, I think most people will blurt out good times, everything goes well, and our mood will be good.
When we do something with our heart and it goes smoothly, we are both happy and fulfilled. If there is a big obstacle and we can't complete it, it will not only discourage our enthusiasm, but also cause us to have self-doubt and confusion.
Is it because this is very difficult, or is it because we are not capable enough, and at the same time, our time is consumed, and our efficiency is also reduced.
Whether from the perspective of process or outcome, the advantages of good times far outweigh those of adversity, but the existence of adversity is unavoidable.
Adversity can cause us to have negative emotions, both mentally and physically, and we will not be confident enough to move forward.
In fact, think about it, most of the time in life is in adversity and self-distress, maybe we choose carelessly, or maybe we are powerless to change the status quo.
What we can do is to adjust our mentality, change our thinking, find out the cause of the problem, take it as a warning, and start again.
Of course, there are some things that will make us slump, and we will have the idea of giving up, but life will go on, choose to escape today, what will we do tomorrow?
Therefore, when we encounter a low point in life, we should regain the courage to live, face it correctly, re-understand ourselves, and strive to make ourselves happier.
During the trough period of life, only by dealing with the two points will the adversity be reversed.
First, we need to look at our hearts.
When we encounter difficulties, we should sink our hearts and think about the reasons, instead of being passive and slacking, or even breaking the jar and letting things go in a bad direction.
No matter what others say, you have to know in your heart, there is no need to deliberately care, only if you succeed or make money, others will naturally keep silent.
In the face of difficulties, the biggest challenge is actually the self, if we can control our emotions, think rationally, and be logical, then all problems will be solved.
Therefore, adversity produces strong people, passing the double test of spirit and body, we do not like adversity, and we are not afraid of difficulties.
Second, we need to respect objective facts.
If we are in adversity, it means that we have made the wrong choice, so we need to overturn our own thinking patterns and think from a different perspective.
We can't just make decisions based on our own preferences, we must find the root cause of the problem from the objective facts, and only in this way can we find out the root cause of the wrong choice.
This objective fact does not change to our liking, we can only respect the facts, change ourselves, and learn from adversity.
Adversity is mostly man-made, we must know how to learn lessons, adversity is easier said than done. Once we encounter adversity, we will persevere to the end, and the probability of a comeback is still very high.
No one wants to succeed through adversity, but a smooth life almost does not exist, as long as we still have fighting spirit and lofty goals, we have to break through adversity in order to achieve our wishes.
In good times, be more patient and complain less, and life will be smoother. In times of adversity, it is possible to turn the tables with more patterns and less care.
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