After the husband and wife get married, as the days go by, it is inevitable that there will be various trivial matters, contradictions are exposed, and quarrels are triggered.
Especially middle-aged couples, they are facing elimination in the workplace, and their families are also old and young. All kinds of problems are superimposed, and even a small quarrel can easily make them emotionally out of control, depressed and painful.
A few days ago, a middle-aged man in Shizuishan, Ningxia, went out alone in the early morning to cry at his parents' grave because of a quarrel with his wife. As a result, because of the cold weather, he almost died on the spot. This incident has aroused the attention and discussion of many netizens.
It is reported that the man is 46 years old and has entered the age of no doubt. On that day, he and his wife had some quarrels at home because of trivial family matters. Then he kept the lights on and sat in the living room smoking.
At two o'clock in the morning, the man couldn't sleep in his heart, and his chest was even more congested, so he went downstairs and drove straight to the cemetery. On the way, the man also bought a bottle of wine at a convenience store.
After arriving at the cemetery, the man parked the car, carried the wine and went in. Soon, he followed the light of the moonlight and the flashlight of his mobile phone to find the tombstone of his parents.
In front of his parents' grave, the man drank wine and cried with his parents about the long-standing depression and troubles in his heart. The more I talked, the more sad I became, and the more I drank, the more I got up. I don't know how long I poured, but the bottle of wine was empty.
At this time, the man was suddenly stirred by the cold wind, and only then did he come back to his senses from his grief in a trance. He suddenly felt the coldness of the weather, and the stiffness of his limbs. I wanted to get up, but my body was already so cold that I didn't obey the call.
Because of fear and cold, the man's wine suddenly woke up most of the time. He curled up, tremblingly took out his mobile phone and dialed 110 to call the police**. While explaining his location, he shivered and said that he was about to freeze to death.
Fortunately, after receiving the police, the police arrived in time, which comforted and sent the thinly dressed man home safely. By this time, it was five o'clock in the morning.
The point of view says:
Seeing this scene, many netizens said that the man's behavior inexplicably made people feel a little sad. How much grievance did he suffer to run to his parents' grave to cry on a winter night in the early morning?
Some netizens said with tears in their eyes that his parents must have been quietly accompanying him in the sky this night.
There are also many netizens who sighed, so what does marriage bring to people?Just like this man, he was about to freeze to death, and his first thought was not to call his wife, but to call the police. Is he still angry in his heart?Or do you know that even if you tell your wife, you can't get care?
In fact, this speculation is not unreasonable, the man really did not think of his wife at the critical moment. But in the face of her husband not returning overnight, didn't the wife not have a word of concern?
It is undeniable that I believe that the man at that time must have been very depressed in his heart, so he would not hesitate to go out on a winter night of minus ten degrees Celsius, go to the cemetery to drink and cry.
In the mood and state at the time, this marriage filled with quarrels was undoubtedly cold. Only his deceased parents seem to be able to give him some warmth and sustenance in his heart. In order to make this man who is nearly fifty years old happy and happy and unscrupulous to say the pain in his heart.
But as the saying goes, it's more sad to use wine to kill your sorrows. It's never wise to go to the cemetery alone on a cold winter night to cry, what if something really happens?Even if you don't talk about his wife, there are children, there are other relatives, and his parents who have been worrying about him in heaven!
It's understandable to have bitterness in your heart, but you must not joke with your own life. The sun will eventually rise, the problem will be solved, but there is only one life!