Too anxious and sensitive, please force yourself to finish reading this book

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

In this competitive society, many people may aspire to have a magical power that allows them to easily overcome difficulties and achieve success.

And this power is hidden in a book - "Dull Sensibility".

This book tells us that "blunt sensibility" is a kind of wisdom to face life, which can help us quickly forget unhappiness, accept failure, and face gossip calmly. Sometimes, dullness brings us more wisdom and inner peace in life than sensitivity. In life, we often get into unnecessary troubles because of over-sensitivity. For example: because of someone else's unintentional words, I can't sleep all night;Because of a small setback, he completely denies himself;Because of some unwarranted speculation, let my mood fluctuate. In fact, this is because we lack "dull sensibility". So, what is blunt sensitivity?Insensitivity is the ability to quickly forget unpleasantness, accept failure, continue to challenge, and face gossip calmly. It doesn't really dull us, but it makes us learn to let go of too much sensitivity and anxiety and face life's challenges with a more peaceful mind. We live in a fast-paced, high-stress society. In the face of various pressures such as love, work, and relationships, we need to learn to use blunt sensitivity to protect ourselves. When we have a dull sensibility, we are better able to resist negative information from the outside world, reduce inner fluctuations, and thus maintain inner peace and firmness. Just like Forrest Gump in the movie "Forrest Gump", he seems to be slow to react, but he always adheres to his beliefs and succeeds step by step. That's the power of blunt sensibility. It allows us to stay focused on our goals and stay the course without outside distractions. To develop blunt sensibility, we need to start with the little things of daily life.

001 Don't over-read itSometimes, we often think of other people's words in the worst way, which makes us very uncomfortable. In fact, many times others do not have malicious intent, but just express themselves differently. Therefore, in our dealings with others, we must learn not to over-interpret what others say. 002 Learn to let goThere will always be some unpleasant things happening in life, but we can't let these things affect our mood all the time. Learn to let go, quickly adjust your mindset, and give yourself a chance to start over. 003 Face it calmlyWhether it's success or failure, you have to face it calmly. Don't be overly proud when you succeed, and don't be overly frustrated when you fail. Learn not to put too much pressure on yourself and not to criticize yourself for pursuing perfection. Only by keeping a normal heart can we better meet the challenges of the future. With blunt sensibility, we can go further and more steadily on the road of life like Forrest Gump.

Remember, life is not all smooth sailing, with ups and downs, gains and losses. Only with blunt sensitivity can we maintain inner peace and firmness in the midst of twists and turns, and meet every challenge in life in a better state.

In the days to come, may we all learn to coat ourselves with a protective film of "blunt sensitivity". Let's be less sensitive, less anxious, less impatient. Let us face all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life more calmly, and pursue our dreams and goals more firmly. Finally, may we all keep our hearts in the midst of fame and fortune, and move forward firmly in the eyes of the world. the end —Reading will accompany you to grow up for life

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