Turn the page in 2023
"Do You Know" said: Staying with others ultimately depends on the lowest character.
When choosing a person, character must come first, love or not love is second.
People with bad character must not be chosen, and they will only take your life to fall down and plunge your life into darkness.
Once, in the process of getting along, you find that the other party's character is not good, then, you must leave decisively.
If a man has three manifestations, no matter how much he loves, he must stay away.
I once had a relationship where the other party was very picky.
After the two of us got together, he has always insisted on AA, from rent, water and electricity, to some daily necessities, everything is clear.
Even if the two of us give each other gifts, they should be of equal value.
I remember one time, the gift he gave was 100 yuan more expensive than mine, and he asked me to pay him back, and the moment I paid him back, we were over.
In the relationship, a man who cares about everything can't be loved, such a person is very selfish, and he only has himself in his eyes.
They don't allow anyone to owe themselves too much to their own interests.
Although it is said: people do not destroy the heavens and the earth for their own sake.
Each of us has a selfish side, we will be dedicated to ourselves, and when we encounter things, we will put ourselves first.
It's human nature, and no one can avoid it.
But selfishness also needs to have a certain scale.
A selfish man who only cares about his own needs and never thinks from your point of view.
He may sacrifice your feelings for his own benefit and even lash out over a little thing. Such a man is not worthy of love.
Emotional stability is extremely important in intimate relationships.
An emotionally unstable man is like a ticking time bomb, which can be anytime and anywhere**.
With such a man, you can't figure out his mind at all, and if you can't say something wrong, he will explode.
Maybe one second it's still talking to you softly, and the next second it's going to throw a tantrum with you.
When things happen, he will not be your dependent, but will repeatedly complain and pour cold water on them, making things worse.
Men who are emotionally unstable, they have an extreme personality and can easily do things that are unexpected.
I have heard of many cases of being hurt by the person next to the pillow, and many times, what we really need to watch out for is precisely the person next to the pillow.
Men with extreme personalities, you have no idea what kind of things they will do. With such a man, you need to be on high guard at all times, and he may hurt you at any time.
There is a kind of man, they are very macho in their bones, they think that men are strong and women are weak, and women should spend their minds on the family.
They are very traditional, have a traditionalism that no one can infringe on, they don't listen to others, and they are self-centered.
is narrow-minded, can't see that his wife is better than himself, and does not allow women to develop better careers than himself.
Habitually sneering at her other half, never praising her, treating her partner as her own private property, and showing no respect for them.
In getting along, I always belittle them, and I despise them in and out of my words.
I can't see the good qualities of my other half, and I don't want to admit that they are excellent.
will not support your dreams, and you will be the first to oppose anything you do.
He will limit your development and even feel jealous and angry because of your success.
Such a man is typical of not seeing the good of others, and staying away is the best policy.
No matter how much you love someone, don't fall in love, don't be blinded by love, but see his character clearly.
If a man has these three performances, his character needs to be considered, don't invest in it, and stop the loss in time.