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When the opposite sex is together, the man thinks that he has given his sincerity, shows kindness to the woman, and gives the woman some care and help in life, which is an expression of love, the woman should be content, the woman should cherish the fate, the woman should treat him well, and the woman should marry him.
Men feel that they have to give, they feel that it is natural to express their expectations of a woman in the name of love and that women should be aware of their expectations, otherwise women have no conscience and do not know how to cherish their fate. At this time, men may like to stand on the moral high ground and blame women at will, but when men feel that they are very reasonable, they ignore one point: women can't accept it and will leave him. The results often shock men: women really choose to leave.
In fact, in the process of sexual interaction, a woman and a man will eventually grow old, not only depends on whether that person loves her and is good for her, finding someone who loves her is naturally the main criterion for women to choose a spouse, but it is not the only criterion, in other words, it is not enough for a man to pay sincerely, for example, some women value the emotional value that a man brings to her, and some women value the economic value that a man brings to her, can you say that it is wrong for a woman to value these things?In this era of pluralistic value orientation, it is not enough to only use the so-called "absolute moral standards" and "love norms" to demand women, after all, people are born with their own value judgments and independent choices in feelings. In fact, when the opposite sex is together, what women care about, in addition to sincerity, there are these, do you know?
1.Your attitude towards her.
When the opposite sex is together, the man sincerely loves the woman, puts the woman in his heart, and at the same time does something for the woman, brings some economic value to the woman, and gives the woman a good material life.
In the eyes of others, men are single-minded, good to people, and good to women, and the most important thing is that the economic conditions are good, and the woman's emotional life is very happy and should be satisfied.
However, the feeling of this thing is as people drink cold and warm, feeling, female value is not the same, some women are born with a desire for companionship, longing for men to be gentle and considerate of themselves, longing for men to be able to bring good emotional value to themselves at critical moments, but these men do not give women, women will be disappointed, it will feel painful, after a long time, women will feel dissatisfied, and in the end they may get tired of living together and choose to leave this man.
2.You can give her a life.
When a man deals with a woman, what kind of life can he give the woman is mainly reflected in two points: first, the real material life, the man has the ability to support the family?Do men have what it takes to take care of themselves?Can a man take care of a woman?Is a man capable of taking care of his parents?
The second is the influence that men have on women's lives, which is reflected in the material, physical and spiritual aspects. Men's material life is scarce, the spiritual world is barren, and all that is brought to women is endless "consumption", consuming women's material and consuming women's spirit, at this time, women will feel disappointed.
3.Will you change your shortcomings?
In love life, women may be able to tolerate some things, but women are difficult to endure men's "scolding", "repeated teaching of advantages and inferiority", just as some men prefer to say dirty words, domestic violence, alcoholism and other bad Xi, women may be able to endure once, but it is difficult to endure all the time, such as breaking through women's patience, women may choose to leave.
Therefore, when it comes to choosing a mate, women value this more, and if men often indulge themselves and repeatedly disappoint women, women criticize, and men always let them go, then women will naturally be disappointed.
A woman is not stupid, she knows that the days of two people are long, and she also knows that she will not compromise endlessly, so she may keep her distance from the man at first.