People live for a lifetime, just like walking in a bustling city, running for life every day, and worrying about the unknown of tomorrow in the dead of night. In middle age, we have tasted the ups and downs of life, and have a deeper understanding of the impermanence of life. In this life, we have seen all the things in the world, tasted the ups and downs, and realized that some things really can't be escaped, and we can't hide from them.
The Buddha said: There are three calamities in life, and no one can escape them. Living in a cold society and feeling the misery of human affection, we are more aware of the truth of human suffering. In this life, everyone can't escape the hardships of worrying about money, suffering for love, and worrying about things, and doing their best is just for an ordinary life.
Worry about money
People can't live without money. It costs money to eat and dress, it costs money to raise children, and money is indispensable for personal contacts. How many people bow their heads in order to earn money, and have to give up their preferences in order to keep their families fed and clothed. Life is hard, everyone is moving forward with a load, although tired, but only when you go home to see your beloved, it is also a rare happiness.
Bitter for love
In this life, people suffer for their feelings. The most tiring thing in the world is not giving, but unreserved in exchange for disappointment. In a relationship, the most regrettable thing is that there is still love between each other, but missing it becomes an eternal regret. In every reluctant parting, we become a little bit mature, learn to let go, and believe that every relationship that we have loved will teach us to grow.
Annoyed by things
Life is a long time, and everyone has to deal with birth, sickness, and death. After countless life and death, a person is bored to the point of insomnia. Fate will not be lenient to anyone, some people will be a lifetime as soon as they turn around, and some people will never meet again with a wave of their hand. Instead of drowning in regret about the past, it is better to cherish the present moment with your heart and not leave regrets for the rest of your life.
Life is short, so it's better to let everything take its course. It's yours to hold tightly, and if it's not yours, let it go calmly. Don't overthink yourself and wear yourself out. For the rest of your life, may you keep a plain heart, feel life well, experience love well, and live the life you want!