My name is Xiao Wang, I am 28 years old, and my target Xiaomei is a young teacher in a local secondary school. The two of us have been in a relationship for three years, and we started living together last year, and it has been a year now. A few days ago, Xiaomei's mother came to see her in our rented community, which made me realize that as a couple, we still need to pay proper attention to influencing others.
After graduating, Xiaomei taught English in a key middle school in the county, and her family lived in the county seat, and her parents were farming in their hometown in the countryside. Last summer, she suddenly offered to live with me officially, and I was a little shy after hearing this, but I agreed.
In fact, I have wanted to marry her for a long time, but considering the current high housing prices and the need to repay loans, I feel that the conditions are not mature enough. But living together can also cultivate feelings, so I acquiesced to her idea.
At first, the two lived together quite sweetly, I went to work during the day, and when I came home at night, I could see my beloved, which felt very warm. There are many couples of the same age as us living in the community, and everyone has a free schedule, and no one pays too much attention to the lives of their neighbors.
After a year like this, I thought that I had become Xi to living together, and suddenly one day Xiaomei said that her mother wanted to come to the city to see her, and asked me to temporarily rent a house near her unit for a few days, so that when my mother came, she could accompany her mother well, and it would not affect me.
I think it makes sense, after all, it's a matter of time before you officially meet your parents, and it's better not to bother the older generation. So I rented a small apartment near Xiaomei's unit and moved in for a week.
Unexpectedly, just yesterday, Xiaomei suddenly called ** and said that her mother had changed her attention, and said that she would come directly to the community where we live together. I was a little at a loss, but it was normal to think about it, her mother must have known that we were living together, and it was better to meet honestly.
In the evening, Xiaomei apologized and brought her mother to the house we rented, and after helping her clean up, the three of us had a simple dinner. Mom was just in her early 50s, but she said she was old and had to rest early. Xiaomei and I went back to the bedroom early.
I thought everything was normal, but I didn't expect Xiaomei, who has always slept well, suddenly became extremely irritable tonight, tossing and turning in bed, making a lot of noise. I whispered to her that she not only ignored it, but intensified it.
Anyway, my mom knows that we're living together, and I just can't sleep tonight!Xiaomei said inexplicably, and the force of turning over was greater.
Seeing that she ignored me, I had no choice but to let her go. But she tossed and turned harder, and the bed creaked as she rolled. I was really worried that my mother would be noisy in the living room, so I had to persuade her again.
Just as I was agonizing about what to do, suddenly there was a loud snoring like thunder from the living room. Xiaomei and I were both startled and hurried up to check.
I saw Xiaomei's mother sleeping on the sofa and had already fallen into a deep sleep. She slept heavily, drooled incessantly, and snored with a shocking sound that almost toppled the roof, unaffected by us.
Xiaomei and I looked at each other, and then we breathed a sigh of relief and went back to the bedroom lightly. It turned out that my mother herself slept very hard, and she would not be awakened by our normal movements at all.
After this incident, I realized that as a couple, it is important to be properly aware of your own influence, and not to be too freewheeling, so as not to affect others. But you shouldn't be overly restrictive, as long as you don't disturb others and keep your life normal.
This anecdote became the laughing stock of our jokes for a few days, and it also inspired me a little. It's good to figure out some worries and don't affect your quality of life. If you should live a normal life, you should live a normal life, and if you should enjoy your time, you can enjoy it.