This life is too short, and I always think that it will be long, but everything is impermanent, and no one knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident.
There are always a lot of surprises in life, you can never guess at which intersection life will give you a hurdle, and you can't expect it to give you a love at which stage, the rest of your life is very long, why panic.
You just need to live well, be sober, live less with yourself, calm your mind, collapse a little, and be more optimistic.
As said in "Alive": "People will always have the freedom to choose their own attitudes and behaviors, and even if they are cruelly treated by fate, they must still treat the world gently." ”
Even if you have gone through a lot, you will not show your weather, don't be too serious, don't be too sad, love life in a daze, and live well.
Live well, don't be angry, less is more serious
Life is so short, don't let anger take over your good time.
If you hate the person, stay away, let the person who makes you have internal friction, don't take care of it, do what you like, go boldly to the city you like, be brave, and you will be happier.
The people said: "If others say two words about you, you can't stand it, don't interfere with two words to eat badly, sleep badly, you think about how fragile you have to be." ”
You have to understand that what can interfere with you is often your own too much, and what can hurt you is often your own inability to think away, if you are peaceful, no one can hate, if you don't investigate, no one can disturb you. ”
Don't worry about important people and unimportant things, don't worry about important things with unimportant people.
Life is tired enough, and you have to squeeze out time to get angry, it's not more tiring, it's your energy that is wasted, it's your body that is angry, and punishing yourself for other people's mistakes is the biggest harm to yourself.
Emotions can't solve any problems, so why bother yourself with mediocrity, why bother yourself, so if you want to open up a little bit of everything, look down, be simple, and be confused, you will be happier.
All difficulties and contradictions can be solved with tolerance and smiles, when things don't go well, a smile will pass, when there are contradictions with others, tolerate others, and tolerate yourself.
When you are angry, you silently say "it's okay", "it's not worth it", and "it will pass", maybe some things, some troubles, will really pass.
A person who is too serious is destined to be unhappy.
Such a person cares about right and wrong, can't help but argue, especially pursues perfection, and likes to calculate.
For everything, you need to have an answer, follow your own thoughts, and do not allow some things to happen around you that are contrary to your own values and conflict with your concept of life.
In the long run, the more genuine emotions will easily make people toss and turn, fall into irritability, and can't let go of obsessions, and eventually break themselves.
If you have to find an answer to everything in your life, it is equivalent to putting a shackle on your life and trapping yourself.
Life is still long, if everything has to be more serious, wouldn't it be too contradictory, and it will kill time over and over again.
On the contrary, those who are confused and don't care about everything, happy and content, trying to be at ease and at ease, what you think is right and wrong, not necessarily true right and wrong, broaden your horizons, expand your mind, and allow things to have the possibility of development and survival.
Don't be more serious with others, because the other party is not worthy, don't be true with yourself, because you can't afford to hurt, don't be true with the past, because you can't go back.
All the unrelenting is to draw the ground as a prison, don't be too serious in this life, reconcile with the world, reconcile with yourself, you are the winner.
Don't be angry, if you are angry, you will lose, those who can't be angry are fools, and those who can be angry but don't get angry are wise.
Punishing oneself for the mistakes of others is the greatest disrespect for oneself.
Don't be more serious, the more serious you are, the more you torture yourself, you care about the results and gains and losses, you will never be reconciled, you will never let go of others, and you will never be able to let go of yourself.
When you don't take it seriously and treat everything as if it doesn't matter, everything suddenly becomes clear, as if it's nothing at all.