In this world, we are often faced with two extreme challenges: on the one hand, to maintain our edges and individuality in order to gain a foothold in a competitive environment;On the other hand, it is also important to maintain a warm heart in order to better understand and care for others. However, it is not easy to do this.
People who are overly hard tend to ignore the feelings of others and only look out for their own interests, thus hurting others. You may lose friends and opportunities because of your stubbornness and self-righteousness. People who are excessively soft may lose their individuality and become unassertive and self-worthless. You may lose yourself by being overly accommodating to others, and ultimately fail to protect your own interests.
So, how can you be sharp and angular while overflowing with warmth?
First of all, we need to recognize our own personality and be clear about our values. You need to know your strengths and weaknesses, as well as your own reactions and behaviors in different situations. In this way, you can better control your emotions and behaviors, and avoid the negative effects caused by being too hard or too soft.
Second, we need to learn to balance our hardness and softness. When dealing with problems, it is necessary to analyze the situation calmly and adopt appropriate attitudes and behaviors according to different situations. Sometimes it is necessary to firmly express one's views and positions and protect one's interests;Sometimes it is also necessary to show concern and understanding of others, and to build good interpersonal relationships. Finally, we need to keep learning and growing. Constantly reflect on your own behaviour and attitudes and learn from them. At the same time, learn from others and understand their perspectives and experiences so that you can better adapt to changing circumstances and challenges. In short, to be angular and warm at the same time, we need to learn to balance our hardness and softness while maintaining our own personality and values. This requires continuous learning and growth, improving one's emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills. Only in this way can you gain a foothold in a competitive environment, and at the same time, you can maintain good interpersonal relationships, and truly be both strong and warm. 2023 Post Sprint Competition