In Shaoxing City, Zhejiang, the marriage story of Xiaoqin and Xiaohui has attracted widespread attention from the society. They got married in a flash after only three months of acquaintance, but soon had irreconcilable contradictions due to the concept of consumption and the division of housework, and finally divorced. However, in their divorce case, the lawyer broke out for a surprising reason.
Xiaoqin and Xiaohui's marriage can be said to be a typical "flash marriage". In just three months, they went from acquaintance and love, to entering the marriage hall, and then to finally parting ways. The twists and turns in this seem to be a TV series with ups and downs.
In 2022, Xiaoqin, a 26-year-old local girl, worked as a contract worker in her father's public institution. She has an extraordinary temperament, outstanding dress taste, and a cheerful personality, so she has attracted the attention of many male colleagues, including Xiaohui in technical management positions.
Xiaohui is from rural Shanxi, has a master's degree from a prestigious university, and was introduced to this unit as a talent. After learning that Xiaoqin's father was the senior leader of the unit, he decided to pursue Xiaoqin.
Xiaoqin's father praised Xiaohui's ability and suggested that his daughter should not miss this excellent boy. With the support of the "prospective father-in-law", Xiaohui's pursuit is more active. At the urging of both families, only three months later, the two registered their marriage.
However, life without an emotional foundation does not go as smoothly as expected. The flash marriage between an urban girl and a rural husband gradually emerged due to differences in life and concepts.
My mom and dad have always treated me like a baby, and I rarely do housework at home. But after getting married, Xiaohui asked me to take care of the housework, and thought it was a woman's duty. Our wedding room and car were all provided by my family, and even the money for the banquet was paid by my parents. I originally hoped that he could take more care of me in life, but he was careful about everything, and even questioned why I had a BMW car at home and he only had an ordinary car
In addition to household chores, we also have differences in the concept of consumption. I offered to hire a domestic worker to free up time, but he thought it was a waste of money. Before I got married, I would travel abroad every year, but after I got married, he didn't agree with me doing this, but wanted me to save my money and contribute to the future purchase of a house. ”
However, the contradictions between them are not irreconcilable. In fact, in their divorce case, there is a thought-provoking question: Xiaoqin spends her own money, why does Xiaohui feel like cutting his flesh?
This problem actually involves a common phenomenon in modern society: the difference in consumption concepts. Xiaoqin and Xiaohui come from different family backgrounds and have different upbringings and values. Xiaoqin's family is wealthy and has a more open concept of consumption, while Xiaohui comes from the countryside and is more cautious about money. This difference in consumption concepts has led to a lot of contradictions in their lives.
In addition to this, the division of household chores is also another focus of their conflict. Xiaoqin grew up in a wealthy family and rarely did housework, while Xiaohui believed that housework was a shared responsibility of husband and wife. This difference in perception leads to frequent quarrels in their lives over household chores.
The marriage story of Xiaoqin and Xiaohui is a wake-up call for us. When choosing a partner, we must not only be confused by the other person's appearance, but also see the other person's values and living habits. Only in this way can we avoid a similar dilemma. At the same time, we should also realize that marriage is not child's play, and it requires the joint efforts and management of both parties. Only in this way can we go further. Let's record my city