"We don't understand the world of the rich", this is the sentiment that many people once expressed.
In the modern material society, many people want to buy luxury houses and luxury cars when they have money, and they can't wait to let everyone know that they are developed. But there are many really rich people, but they are what people call "** rich". They don't flaunt that they are rich, and sometimes they don't even want others to notice that they are rich. In fact, this may be what a rich person should really look like. Money is the basic guarantee of people's lives, so there are many people who like to show off their wealth, which is actually a manifestation of lack of self-confidence. Truly rich people don't deliberately flaunt their wealth, because they don't need to use their wealth to prove that they are better than others, and they don't need to get more recognition in this way. Only people who are serious and low-key can be more popular in the crowd. Low-key people are not necessarily not good, but they live more for themselves. High-profile people are not necessarily good, they just let themselves live in the eyes of others. The most precious thing in a person's life is not wealth, but a healthy body and a happy family, which have nothing to do with others. If we want to be popular and respected in the crowd, remember not to flaunt these three things. 
This is the most important point. It has nothing to do with other people's money, because your money is earned by yourself, and you will not give it to others casually. When you tell someone you're rich, it's just to show off. However, others may not be as rich as you, but they live happily. Once they learn that you are much richer than them, they will naturally not be in a good mood and feelings, and even if they will not be jealous, they will deliberately distance themselves. 
After all, no one wants to have a friend by their side, and every time they meet, they are reminded that they are not having a good time. Not to mention, some people with ulterior motives know that you are rich, and they will have bad thoughts, and the phrase "people die for money, birds die for food" is not a joke. On top of that, people who have wealth today may end up with nothing tomorrow, or even go into debt. In ancient times, people often said that money is something outside the body, and it is not brought with it in life or in death, so what is there to show off about such things?There may be some people who value wealth and money, and having wealth makes them feel extremely happy and satisfied, but not everyone has the same idea and has the same value scale. Therefore, showing off one's wealth is an act that is easy to attract annoyance, and it is also the practice of lowering the highest popularity index. I once read a story about wealth not buying respect. There was a rich man who was very rich, but others did not respect him, and the rich man was very distressed about it. He is so rich, why do people look down on him?One day he was walking down the street and met a beggar in rags. The rich man gave the beggar a gold coin, thinking that the beggar would thank him for his kindness, but the beggar did not look at him at all, and only cared about catching lice for himself. The rich man angrily asked, "Are you blind?".I gave you gold, why don't you thank me?But the beggar said, "What is given is your business, and if you are not pleased, you can take it back." The rich man gave the beggar ten more gold coins, but the beggar ignored him. The rich man was so angry that he stomped his feet and said, "I'll give you ten gold coins!."I'm a rich man, why do you disrespect me so much?The beggar lazily replied, "What does it have to do with me that you have money?"It's my freedom to disrespect you. The rich man asked, "Then if I give you half of my property, will you respect me?"The beggar rolled his eyes: "If you give me half of the property, we will both be equally rich, why should I respect you?""Then if I give you all my possessions, you are willing to respect me?"The beggar laughed like a fool and said, "You give me all your property, you become a beggar, I become a rich man, since I am a rich man, why should I respect you?"”
You see, it doesn't really matter if others respect you and welcome you, and it really doesn't matter whether you are rich or not. We will meet a lot of people and know a lot of people by chance, and there are many people at the level of big names. However, a lot of people just exist in our friends list. We can tell someone who we know, but that person is not necessarily the person we are moving to. It is not worth being proud to have powerful people in the circle of friends, because it is they who are powerful, not us. It's hard to be convincing to show off someone else's achievements. It's as if two people who are also down-and-out get together, one laughs at the other and is not as good as so-and-so, are you like you said so-and-so?In the same stormy life, what do you use to believe in the goodness of others to laugh at people who are similar to you?Some people like to compare, like to show off. But I don't have enough strength, so I will compare what I know, hear, and see others, for example, there is someone in the circle of friends who is richer than you, for example, I see that my colleague said that the child of her relative's neighbor is the top ...... in the college entrance examinationHearing this, even if the other party agrees with his face, he will secretly ask in his heart: "What does the person you show off have to do with you?"And what does it have to do with me?This kind of high-minded and arrogant appearance for others will make many people avoid it. Another risk of flaunting your network is that it's easy to put yourself in a dilemma. What would you do if the person you are showing off doesn't have such a good relationship with you, but a friend believes it and asks you to do something with the other person?Unreal things will always be exposed, and the moment they are exposed, our image in the eyes of the other party will be greatly reduced, and over time, we will be seen as people who can only brag. How can such an interpersonal relationship be harmonious?
In the eyes of many parents, their children are the most beautiful, the best, the loveliest, and the most sensible, combining the advantages of the whole universe. 
Every child is a no. in the eyes of their parents1. You have your no1. Others also have someone else's. Every child is different, has a different personality, and is good at different things. It can be said that every child can be very good, and when a person shows off his child's advantages, it will inevitably make other parents unhappy: your child is all-round, and my child is not bad!Moreover, although the growth and achievements of children are the result of parental education and guidance, there are also children's own efforts and dedication. Think about it, if it's just parents who spend money to send their children to dance lessons, but the children themselves refuse to practice Xi, then no matter how much money you spend, it is useless to hire a good teacher. Is it the parents who are not doing their duty?Not exactly. Therefore, each child's achievements have their own contributions, which can be said to be a joint effort between parents and children. Each family has a different way of getting along, and the children educated are naturally different. This kind of show-off, which has no comparison, can be annoying if it is too much. Low-key has always been a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of wisdom to get along with others. Many people who don't show off or show off live better than others. But because they know how to live their own life quietly, and are gentle and tolerant and appreciative of the lives of others, they are welcomed and respected. This is much better than those who deliberately show off. A person who shows off himself can only satisfy his own vanity, but he will stab others and end up being the unpopular one in the crowd. Humans are social animals, and we all live in groups. Therefore, making people like themselves and willing to be friends with them is the real success. Even if you are sensitive and cowardly, you can make yourself popular by working hard. Be friendly and care for others, but also love yourself in life. May your future life be welcomed and sunny.