How do I spend my life?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-19

The yearning for a better life, the unquenchable desire for gratitude, and the sympathy for the difficulties of others have dominated my life.

I yearn for a better life. Childhood, that was the happiest and happiest day of my life, peeing and thin mud, herding cattle with my friends by the lotus pond river, chopping wood, playing hide and seek, at that time, I was like a small flower blooming in the field in spring, blooming vigorous and carefree;As a teenager, I gradually matured with the simple steps of my childhood, and I worked hard to explore the structure of the universe and the laws of operation, and worked tirelessly on the road of seeking knowledge, determined to spend my entire life and energy for the liberation of all mankindAs a young man, I walked out of the ivory tower and bid farewell to my student life of hard work, and since then, I have been bathed in the sun, roaming leisurely in the tunnel of time, and dancing my youth with light.

In 1994, the unit assigned me a house, so that I, the "little sparrow" who flew out of Dongting Lake, finally had a "nest" in the metropolis of GuangzhouIn 1998, I built a "country house" in my wife's hometownFrom then on, I was fluttering: as long as there was no war, as long as there was no major turmoil, relying on these possessions, I should have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of my life. As a result, I no longer pursued the accumulation of money, and leisurely stepped into the realm of indifferent and free life. In life, I have become more and more kind to every dawn and dusk of my life, taking care of my body carefully. When you are bored, go on the Internet, listen to **, appreciate the beautiful text, and code the text;When you are interested, you can take your wife and go to the distance together, wander between the green mountains and green waters, and savor the artistic conception of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely", and when you are tired, stop and breathe, and watch the sunset ......

I crave gratitude with the same zeal. Since I was born in this world, I have received blessings from all over the world, and it can be said that it is the help of my family and friends that has made me who I am today.

I am grateful to my mother, who brought me into this world, and my growth and this work are the result of my mother's hard work. I was able to grow up ** because of my mother's blood and sweat. I was able to become a person who was not very bad, because my mother influenced me. My personality and Xi were also taught by my mother's words and deeds. Thanks to my wife, I came to Guangzhou alone, and I can't do without my wife's care. Whether I am poor or rich, I will go through the ups and downs of life with my wife, support each other, and never abandon each other for the rest of my life. I am grateful to my daughter for coming into my life, fulfilling my wish to be a father, bringing me a lot of joy and hope, and making my life more complete. I am grateful to the people who helped me when I was at a low point, the people who sheltered me from the wind and rain in the heavy rain, the people who encouraged me when I was lonely, the people who comforted me when I was sad, and the people ......who silently hugged me when I was desperateI want to give them as much care as possible, and through my help, they can enjoy a warmer and happier life.

The yearning for a better life, the unquenchable desire for gratitude, is a human instinct, but sympathy for the hardships of others leads me to the sky.

My fourth brother, born from his mother's womb, was very weak, and when he was fifteen or sixteen years old, he often urinated in bed. Due to his poor physique, his whole body is thin and weak, and some naughty peers often use him as the object of teasing or bullying. There was a man named Xu Guangming in the village, and he often humiliated him. Once, Xu's harsh words hurt my father, and as soon as the fourth brother returned home, the cruel father pushed him to the ground and trampled him with his foot. A chill rose rapidly from the bottom of my heart, instantly spread all over my body, and burned deep into my heart, becoming a scar that I could never touch, dripping blood at the slightest touch. Therefore, among my brothers and sisters, the one I care about and miss the most is my fourth brother, and I can't hear anything bad about him, and I can't see him suffering.

In July 2003, my brother-in-law was admitted to a university in Changsha, and in order to let him study Xi with peace of mind and to reduce the pressure on my father-in-law's life, I took the initiative to bear all the expenses of my brother-in-law's schooling. Four years later, his wife and brother completed his studies and entered the society, working in a bank in GuangzhouAfter a few years, he bought his own private car and lived a decent, dignified and happy life. Seeing the proud and happy smile on my brother-in-law's face, I was secretly happy, because of his efforts and the help of me, as a brother-in-law, I finally changed the fate of a farmer's family.

In August 2011, when I saw that my wife and sister were still crammed into an old house of more than 10 square meters after they got married, I did not hesitate to give her my "country house" that I was ready to enjoy my old age in peace, so that their family could live in a big house and start a new life.

Life in the world, like a white horse passing by in a fleeting moment, each of us does not want to do nothing in our lives, each of us wants to live happily every day, then, how will my life be spent?I think my life should have been spent like this: when I look back, I will not be ashamed of my poverty, I will not regret my narrow-mindedness towards my relatives and friends, and I will not feel guilty for my lack of empathy for the difficulties of others. In this way, when I am dying, I can proudly say, "In this life, I have enjoyed, loved, hated, and cried, and I have no regrets!"(Nine full).

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